Let’s Talk #3 – Small Wins & Losses

Hello everyone !

I’m back with another fun Lets Talk session. I know it’s been while since I conducted the talk session. But now here’s brand new talk session which is gonna be helpful for all of us.

What is Let’s talk? Are you new to my blog ?

If yes , then here are links to my previous Let’s Talk posts :

• Let’s Talk #1
• Let’s Talk #2

Let’s start !

Imagine , you had a great day. You successfully completed a project at your work Or had a great exam or had great time with your friends. At the end of day you try to think about things which went wrong or where you didn’t do well.

Let’s take another example , you met someone who’s a great person & has many good qualities. But still you look for their flaws & imperfections.

This is the main reason why people are unhappy. Because they are always focusing on what went wrong instead of what is going right & perfect.

Small wins & losses? What are they?

A small win can be any positive thing happened to you in the whole day.

For example:

• You made someone smile
• You completed an assigned task to you
• You woke up early & did exercise as planned
• You helped someone

It can be anything no matter how small.

My today’s small win & loss:

I had practical exam today. I was prepared well for all of the problem statements except two. Unfortunately I got the problem statement for which I was not prepared. Unlucky me.

I was screwed. But somewhere I had a feeling that I’m gonna complete my practical successfully. Though I didn’t know how.

I mean ,I had an obvious option which was requesting my teacher to let me change my problem statement. Though after changing it my 10 marks was going to be already reduced. But I had no option , right?

And thankfully teacher let me change it & I got an easy one. I completed my practical successfully & I came home with a smile on my face.

So the small win was not getting panicked & having belief that it’s gonna be fine. Staying positive in such situation was a win for me.

But , I do need to accept the fact that I should’ve prepared for every problem statement. My loss was not preparing for those two problems & trusting my luck too much (Stupid me). I’m gonna prepare for my next exam better than I did for this one.

I hope you are getting what I mean here. I mean , look for positives but also don’t ignore the negatives. Because, we must learn from the negatives & celebrate positives.

I want each one of you to share your Small wins as well as Small losses from today. Sharing small wins will help you to cheer up & losses will help you to work harder on your weak areas.

So where did you win today & where did you lost ?

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