You can’t love someone everyday

You can't love someone everyday

There will be days when you want to be left alone in silence. You won’t even need their support to make you feel any different. It is impossible.

There are days when you don’t agree with your best friend, no matter how strong your bond is. You just can’t.

But that doesn’t mean your friendship is over. Or it will never get to back it. Next day you wake up & still search for same friend when you go out in world.

Because you know, no matter how darker the night gets you’ll have a company to light a candle.

So is Love.

These days people leave relationships when there’s no spark left. When the feelings which reminded of scenes from favorite movie no longer seems relatable.

They never love the person, they love the feelings. The feelings just as described in a romantic novel or lyrics from a love song. It’s the feeling they long for, not the actual person.

And this will never make one satisfied. That’s why people jump from one person to another crushing previous ones. Because there’s no spark /excitement/thrill left.

As they’re obsessed with those 2hour romantic movie which is never the whole picture. It can never be real, no matter how inspired it is from true events.

The modern generation lacks patience. Why? Because they have a gadget inside their pocket which gives them infinite options of anything they want.

A meme isn’t funny enough? A video isn’t entertaining enough? A Quote isn’t relatable enough? A person isn’t fun to be with anymore?

Forget being patient. You have tons of options available on your fingertips.

Well, You’ll never love someone everyday. You must go through those days when you hate that one & also when you can’t breathe without same person.

That’s called life, don’t try to turn it into a movie.

Thank you for reading!


Hey Everyone!

Not sure if this short article or random rant makes much sense or not.

I wrote this few weeks back when I was struggling to start writing after a long break.

So, do let me know your thoughts in the comments below.

[ Reposted on 2nd November 2020, Originally posted 17th February 2020]


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7 thoughts to “You Can’t Love Someone Everyday

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  • Pavithra

    “They never love the person, they love the feelings”.. Wow loved reading this post! The world needs to know more of this!

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  • Over Soil

    Actually Beloved, I disagree. You see, as you use the word “you” (and even if you use the word “we”) is it possible to know others? As for my thoughts, I will share that although I FEEL I’m not loving towards others on occasion, my love is still there and secretly (sometimes FEELING unknown to myself) I love those that I FEEL hate towards. Because I believe that inside we are all part of the same and interconnected by a love of each other. As an interconnected being, surely I cannot love one part without loving the other (and also FEEL hate towards some parts of the whole). Love runs deeper than our FEELINGS surely?

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Exactly! Love is there but if someone young expects things to be all exciting and filmy then that’s not gonna happen.

      Thank you for reading and sharing lovely thoughts ❤️

      Reply
  • Simantini

    This is a reality check.I really wonder how people find everything ‘relatable’ and nowadays most people think that imitating some scenes from a movie is perfect romance or the best way to express love.Is heroism needed in true love?

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  • Joana

    The internet creates this fairytale expectation on people about love.

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