Why don’t I talk?

Because I am thinker not talker

Because I think before I speak

Because I love observing

Because I choose words wisely

Because I hate small talks

Because I am bad at expressing

Because I am slow to open up

Because I seek peace in chaos

Because I don’t seek approval from others

Because I seek true friendship instead of fake acquaintance

Because I hate to reveal

Because I am a mystery hard to solve

Because it’s my nature

Because it’s the way I am.


Hopefully the answer to the most asked question is out.

I wrote this one in a train journey when I was sitting silent in group of people.

Let me know your thoughts on this in comment section below.

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91 thoughts to “Why Don’t I Talk ?

  • A Pondering Mind

    I’m a lot like you. Always thinking, but never say much at all.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      High five πŸ˜‰
      Glad to know that we are alike 😁

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  • Nikshita

    Loved reading this post.

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  • Nameera

    This is so relatable when I don’t feel like talking & people assume something is wrong with me. Although I’m a people person & derive energy through conversations, I do need to spend some time alone, by myself. (:

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes , exactly. People are good at assuming lol.
      And yeah , spending some time alone is a must πŸ˜‰β™₯️

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  • Rani-StarDreamer

    I talk a lot🀣

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Haha , I’m sure you ask this question to those who don’t talk 😜

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      • Rani-StarDreamer

        Haha, Sometimes probably yes .. however My doubt always stops at the point thinking ..how they are surviving with out talking much 😜

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  • noir622224124

    Yes me too

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  • Mira & Irina

    So deep,can You answer me to one question?!What are You doing If people dont miss You or they dont listen to You?!Can You help me with an answer?!I need an advice!!You re amazing!!(Mira)

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    • Accidental Blogger

      When I feel ignored in a group I feel bad. Yeah , it’s natural.
      But it gets better soon too.
      Because I’ve accepted myself the way I’m.

      All you need to do whenever you feel ignored is , tell yourself that it’s alright. And do not compare yourself with others.

      Also just because you got ignored for once don’t stop trying to interact.
      Take it slow & you’ll be fine.

      Thank you so much 😊β™₯️

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      • Mira & Irina

        Thank you sooo much…You really helped me…my reaction used to be next:when i am ignored by someone i get more and more interested of that person…and always the feedback is bad..
        Thank you so much!!!

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  • a.mermaid'spen_

    Perfect πŸ˜‡

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  • Optimistic Soul

    Awesome post <3
    Keep rocking πŸ˜‰

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  • Abhishek pathania

    So good. Relatable

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  • Chris John

    Can connect with every bit of it..

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  • Chris John

    Can connect with every bit of it.. Great attempt πŸ™‚

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  • Katherine

    Honestly, I envy you. I am more of a talkative person, and I wish I could listen more then talk.
    But I work on this, and I am getting better by each day.
    Thanks for sharing!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Guess what? I envy you because you can easily express yourself. Haha , it’s funny.

      That’s really good that you’re also working on observing others.

      Thank you so much β™₯οΈπŸ˜€

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  • savitha's Blog

    You are how you are and that’s great. Keep rocking. πŸ‘πŸ˜€

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  • Ananya

    wow!! Amazing!

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  • Vrunda

    Relatable πŸ˜…βœŒοΈ

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Glad to know you could relate to it πŸ˜‰
      Thank you for reading πŸ˜€

      Reply
  • Spreading Love. Just Love.

    Oh I love this. I so relate to this! Why does our society only appreciate the ones who talk. Its not that us quieter ones don’t have what to say, as you so eloquently express in your poem. Its that we are thinkers more than anything else. Thank you for sharing this πŸ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Exactly!
      I think, people find hard to accept someone who is different from others. Because they are habitual to same kind of people so they expect everyone to be same.

      Thank you so much πŸ˜€β™₯️

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  • Kranti

    Perfect.. just stay the same!!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™

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      • Kranti

        Always my pleasure πŸ’™

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  • over soil

    This is such a good list of reasons on why someone isn’t talking. I wonder if the opposite is true of those that just talk so seamlessly on and on about nothing in particular? Going to read it again with the opposite in mind to check that idea out, give us a sec. [scrolled up, read it again, scrolled back] Then wonders if: “Because it’s my nature” and “because it’s the way I am” is the only two that stays the same? Think I can sometimes relate to wanting not to engage and at other times engaging for a reason, even on occasion in small talk, just to connect to someone who l think needs it. Thank you for sharing.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much !
      Same here ,I too sometimes like to talk but that doesn’t happen often.

      Reply
  • MyPoems

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    Congratulations.!!
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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much β™₯οΈπŸ˜€

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      • MyPoems

        Most welcome πŸ™‚

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  • Jyo

    Beautiful flow of wordsπŸ‘

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  • thehundredworder

    Great post❀️

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  • calmkate

    well you certainly express yourself very well in verse!
    You need to be true to yourself and make some connections πŸ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes , I’ll surely remember your advice.
      Thank you 😊β™₯️

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      • calmkate

        you are most welcome πŸ™‚

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  • Nicculent

    happy new year nd congrats on 1000 followers!you poetry is amazing as always!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much Nika & Happy new year to you tooπŸ’™

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  • Muntazir

    This is so me. Happy that you wrote this.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s cool πŸ˜‰ Glad to know you could relate😊

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      • Muntazir

        Totally. My pleasure

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  • Vrunda

    Hey! I’ve nominated you for the Mystery Blogger Award. I hope you enjoy it! Here’s the link –
    https://vrundachauk.wordpress.com/2019/01/04/mystery-blogger-award/

    Looking forward to read your answers!! πŸ™‚

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  • sanikakendhe

    This is the reason for your amazing work ✌️

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  • popsiclesociety

    Wonderful!

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  • K.A.L.T

    I used to be like this back when I was in school. But a year into national service where I’m stuck in camp with my bunkmates 5 days a week, I learnt to talk more and share openly. Though perhaps I can only do so because we all can flame each other and ourselves all in good humour. I don’t think too deeply anymore because it usually gets quite depressing, I leave my thinking and serious self to write my blog and my stupid and immature self to interact with my friends around me. XD

    Although, when someone asks me a serious question, sometimes I end up replying quickly but talking to them a few days later about the same thing after thinking more about it.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I can relate to you so much. I too take time to think about specific topic that is going around me and later I end up writing it on my blog.
      πŸ™‚

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  • sjk44

    I really liked reading this as it appealed to me very much! Thanku 😊

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  • Laura Venturini

    This is great!! ❀️

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  • Ben Naga

    LIGHTLY FELT TIPS

    When you learn to distinguish
    between what is truly good in poetry
    (especially your own)
    and what is – shall we say – not so good
    then you are almost there.

    The rest is just practice, daring,
    risk taking and self confidence.
    Satisfying yourself is the foundation.
    Rules are there to follow or break;
    pleasing others a welcome bonus.

    So leave the back door wide open
    and invite the Musey Lady in for a brew.
    She loves to take a load off.
    If she’s silent, it’s only ‘cos she’s thinking.
    She’s just observing, sipping her tea.

    – Ben Naga

    https://bennaga.wordpress.com/2018/03/17/lightly-felt-tips-republished/

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  • Shivani.

    ‘Because I hate to reveal’

    Absolutely true, this is relatable and the others things as well.
    The most important thing is spending time alone, you start observing others as well your own self.

    Beautifully written Sumeet!❀

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Agreed. Observing others & your own thoughts helps you understand about a lot of things 😊

      Thank you Shivaniβ™₯️

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  • Chandni Asnani

    Woahh! Biggg samepinch again. 😐 I don’t talk for pretty much the same reasons. Interesting how there are so many perspectives to one single question. Not talking doesn’t make us any less than others. Glad I came across this right now. β™₯

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    • Accidental Blogger

      My hands are so soar since last night. You’ve been pinching me so much πŸ˜‚
      And yeah not talking doesn’t make us any less nor who talks makes them better than us 😊

      Thank you β™₯️

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      • Chandni Asnani

        Haha, don’t blame me naa. 😹😹 Start being different from me, and all problems will be solved. Warna fir be ready for more. ☺☺

        Yayy! Today, I’m going to spam your blog with comments. It’s my Sunday ka goal. Cheers! πŸ™†

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Hahah ! No, I can’t do that. I’m sure there are many more similarities waiting to be explored πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

          Hahaha , then I’m waiting for all your comments 😁

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          • Chandni Asnani

            You said it yourself! Bas fir, learn to tolerate the pain. 😹 Anddd, yayy!

  • Nancy Sabato

    To remain silent is the best way to understanding, we should always be slow to respond until we know the whole story. Good post!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s what I believe tooβ™₯️
      Thank you πŸ˜€

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  • Rageshree

    I can truly relate to this!❀️

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m glad to know you could relate 😊
      Thank you β™₯️

      Reply
  • intentforcontent

    Gorgeous photo, caputured the sun perfectly – gorgeous words too x

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you πŸ˜€β™₯️
      but the picture isn’t mine
      πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

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  • Blogs by J

    INCREDIBLE πŸ™Œβœ¨βœ¨βœ¨

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank youuuu β™₯️😊

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      • Blogs by J

        Of course!! I am so glad to be subscribed to your blog, you put out very relatable and amazing content! 😊

        Reply
  • kritika Sharma

    Yeah, I also love to live alone because it is the only situation when no one can hurts you and it’s the fact only you can love yourself.. no one can

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s so true. We take responsibility of ourselves & don’t depend on others..
      Thank you for reading β™₯️😊

      Reply
  • SAFARNAMA

    Very well written

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