Have you ever been stuck at same place?

Where you lost motivation to move further?

Where you can’t stop overthinking?

Where you couldn’t find any way out?

I’m sure you have. Actually I’m stuck right now at a same place where I can’t see any way out.

But don’t worry , till the end of this post I’m sure I’ll find a way. And you’ll too.

What Does Getting Stuck Actually Mean?

I’ll try to explain it with the help of an example. Suppose you are studying for an upcoming exam. You are preparing for it from past few months consistently. But then suddenly you lost consistency & got distracted. And you are not able to get back to your previous schedule of studying.

This situation where you can’t find a way to get out of a negative situation is called as Getting stuck.

So how to get out of this hopeless place?

Its Okay To Get Stuck

Yes , you heard it right. It’s totally okay to get stuck at one place. You are human, not a machine who can keep working all the time. You will get tired. You will lose motivation. You will feel like giving up. It’s totally natural.

But what happens is that when we are in this situation , we start to blame ourselves. Also we develope a lot of negative thoughts about ourselves.

So first of all, all you need to do is tell yourself “It’s totally okay to get stuck”.

Talk It Out

In this situation we often start overthinking the same thing again & again. Yet we fail to find a solution. So we end up getting frustrated & lose motivation to find a solution.
To avoid this , share whatever you’re going through with someone you trust. Explain them what you’re going through. It doesn’t matter if that person has solution for your problem or not , just talking it out will surely clear your mind. And you might end up finding solution by yourself.

So , Talk it out.

Start Small

Finally you’ve decided to get out of the place you’ve been stuck for long & start working once again. So you start planning what you are going to get yourself back on track of your life.

But wait, do not set high expectations at the beginning. Why? Because you’ve not been working from long so starting by setting bigger goals & higher expectations can make you lose motivation quickly. And again you’ll be back to where you started.

So ,Start small.

Write It Down

As you wake up, write down whatever tasks you want to do that day (Do not forget “start small”).

Write them down and prioritise tasks. As you complete one task tick the checkbox & move further.

In this way you’ll start to get back to being productive once again. At the end of the day you’ll be proud of yourself & motivated to work for next day.

Be Positive

This is really hard thing to do in this kind of situation. But it’s the most important thing which can help us to get out such situations quickly.

No matter how many negative thoughts you get during this time, always remind yourself of all of your blessings, strengths & successes.

This will help you to believe in yourself & also motivate you keep going without looking back.

And eventually You’ll get out of the place you’ve been stuck.


Hello Everyone !

Actually I’m experiencing this situation currently. I’m stuck with my laziness from past few weeks & I was trying too hard to get out of it.

So , I thought why not to write a blog post about this topic to help me & also anyone who’s going through such phase in their life.

What are your thoughts on this post? Found this post helpful or not? Let me know in the comment section below.

Thank you for reading β™₯️


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51 thoughts to “When You’re Stuck

  • Ananya

    Really helpful! Great content are really good advice!! πŸ‘πŸ‘Œ
    Thank you β˜ΊπŸ‘

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ananya😊β™₯️

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      • Ananya

        My pleasure! πŸ˜ŠπŸ‘

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  • anamikaisblogging

    You explained Getting Stuck very thoroughly with much detailed examples too…not only have you shared the problem but also gave a suggestion too.
    Everyone of us get stuck at some given time in our life…but to move on after that is the challenge.
    Great post…. Sumeet.

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  • Riya

    Great post! You found the answer to your problem yourself!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Haha , yes. We all know solutions for our problems but it’s hard to apply them 😜
      Thank you 😊

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  • Sakshi

    Writing truly helps …… GREAT Post

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes , it really does πŸ™‚
      Thank you 😊β™₯️

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      • Sakshi

        My pleasure

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  • AnamcharaLOVe

    Thank you for this post. And hope you are stuck no more there πŸ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m getting out of it soon πŸ˜‰
      Btw I’m not able to access your website. You must have entered wrong web address. Do correct it from account settings 😊

      Reply
  • Chandni Asnani

    Yayy! The right post at the right time. I really liked your suggestions, and surely going to try them. Very motivating write-up, Sumeet. πŸ™† Also, that kitty picture is exactly meee, haha. 😹😹

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much chandni 😊β™₯️
      Hahaha ,tum hi ho wo😼

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      • Chandni Asnani

        Ohhh! Thankyou for featuring me in your post. 🐱

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  • savitha's Blog

    Laziness is something I too need to deal with. Sometimes being a bit lazy Is good but doing things on time saves the trouble for later. Lovely post.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Haha , yes. Doing things earlier is better always 😊
      Thank you β™₯️

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  • a.mermaid'spen_

    Indeed helpful.

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  • CHRISTY ISTRATE

    Great motivation! Thank you! πŸ™πŸ€—

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  • jessierenea

    LOVE YOUR POST !! πŸ’• It’s somewhat similar to the one I published today !! Hope you get a chance to check it out and connect back with me!! ☺️ https://jessierenea.com/6-places-to-find-inspiration-when-fighting-writers-block/

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you Jessie!
      That’s cool , I’ll read it out wait.. 😊

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      • jessierenea

        You’re welcome πŸ’•

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  • Kranti

    Yes, we all get stuck..get distracted at some point in life! Indeed, Our positive attitude makes a big difference..Great post!!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes , positivity always helps 😊
      Thank you so much β™₯️

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      • Kranti

        My absolute pleasure 😊❀️

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  • Vanessa

    I get stuck on laziness too! haha

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    • Accidental Blogger

      We all do 😊 You know how I got stuck in laziness πŸ˜‚

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  • iScriblr

    Brilliant post!✌

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  • Thought for Change

    I’m also stuck I can write but what comes after writing is publishing it and I can’t come to do that.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That must be really hard. This hasn’t happened with me yet.
      But one thing I can say is that, me & all your readers love what you write. So just for readers publish whatever you write 😊β™₯️β™₯️

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  • ranaeray

    Great post! Kind of a similar theme to what I just wrote about here to achieve more in life: https://therayjourney.com/2019/01/26/8-steps-to-achieve-anything-you-want-in-life/

    It is hard sometimes to mentally pull yourself out of a situation where you are stuck, but it only takes practice and a lot of well-power to get out of that state and take a step forward. I’d say practice and, yes, take it one step at a time.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s really great advice. Thank you for adding this points in comment section 😊
      I will check out your post tooπŸ˜€

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  • __the_lady_king325

    Hey hey dude, I can totally relate to this! I’m preparing for entrance exams right now. And about a month ago, I was stuck too. So yeah, I pretty much stopped overthinking and started doing. You know, a post becomes 10 times more beautiful when you can absolutely relate to it! So, great stuff and keep it up.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Wow ! It’s really great that you got out of that situation & never stopped working toward what you wanted😊

      And yeah, I agree that post is only worth when reader can relate to it 😊

      Thank you β™₯️

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      • __the_lady_king325

        You’re welcome πŸ’œ and keep the journey going. You’re doing some great stuff here.

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Thank you once again.
          You too , keep it up πŸ˜ŠπŸ‘Œ

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  • Books, Life and Everything Nice

    Love the photo! Getting stuck is so frustrating. I especially like the idea of starting small. Any step is helpful to get the motivation and momentum going.

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  • Vrunda

    Great message

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  • Athena Minerva

    Reblogged this on The English Introvert and commented:
    Excellent ideas here.

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  • huguetta

    I believe you have stated the problem and then you’ve put guidelines to overcome it πŸ™‚ I can relate, it always helps to follow these instructions! Good work

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  • Eva

    Wow I love this post. It is so relatable. There were moments when I got stuck and I related it to me being in a β€œquarter life” crisis. And you’re absolutely right. It is okay… it is okay to be stuck. It’s part of life that we need to experience.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m so glad to know that you could relate to it & found it helpful.
      Exactly, it’s a part of life 😊
      Thank you for your kind words β™₯️

      Reply

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