Do you spend time with yourself ?

How much time do you spend with yourself daily ?

Or you are never able to spend time with yourself?

What do I mean by spending time with yourself?

Confused , right?

Let’s start !

Hello Everyone !

Right now , I’m writing this during my Me time. What’s my Me time?

Me time is where I spend 30 mins with just myself. I don’t talk with anyone , Don’t use my phone except sometimes I do listen music. I spend most of it doing nothing. I casually have a walk & try to release the daily stress.

I’ve made this habit of making time for myself from a year now & I think it’s one of the good habit everyone should get into.

I think Solitude makes you Independent. Once you get comfortable being with yourself, you don’t need anyone else to complete you.

Why to spend time with yourself ?

Nowadays everyone has become so much busy that they can’t even find just few minutes for themselves. We all are always busy in our day to day activities like Work , College/School . Even when we are back from our respective work we are still mentally in work related problems. We keep thinking about what went wrong during day or what is going to happen tomorrow.

And what this does is makes us tired. Not only physically tired but mentally too.

So, Why not spend few minutes of your day just to relax your body & mind?

Why not spend time with yourself & try to analyze your day carefully ?

Why not look for the positive things from your day & learn from negatives?

How to find time for yourself?

This is really important question. I see many people complaining about how hard it is to find time for themselves. Okay , I get that you are a really busy person. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t just find at least 15 mins for yourself.

So , if you are one of those who is extremely busy person here’s how you can find time for yourself :

  • Write down your daily activities & time spend on them.
  • Now , look out for those activities which aren’t productive. For ex: Spending time on social media , Watching TV , Sleeping too much or just doing nothing.
  • As you’ve successfully identified non-productive activities from your day, you can definitely limit time spent on those & make time for yourself.

How to spend this time?

By doing nothing. All you need to do is relax. Get out & feel the cool air on your skin. Look at the stars. Feel alive.

When you’re feeling relaxed , you can start thinking about your day. While analyzing day you’ve to look for the positive sides of days & also learn from the negative ones.

Also you can listen to your favourite music & enjoy it to the fullest.

But do not use your mobile during this “Me time”. Using social media during this would be the last thing you wanna do.

Final Words

Spending time with yourself & for yourself can help you in number of ways

  • Reduce stress.
  • Increase productivity.
  • Less dependent on external factors for happiness.
  • Lift your mood up.

So why not from today you start making time for yourself to just relax & be yourself ?

And if you are one of those who is afraid or bored to spend time alone , ask yourself

If I am not interested in spending time with myself , why would others be?

So , Do you spend time with yourself?

Let me know what you do in that time in the comment section below ๐Ÿ˜‰

Thank you for reading!


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80 thoughts to “Spend Time With Yourself

  • Winnie

    I have my me time sometimes too! It keeps me sane. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s really great. Me time is must for everyone ,I feel .
      Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜ƒโค

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  • Meenakshi

    ๐Ÿ™‚ I could actually relate with it, for I spend time with me. After work, gazing at the night sky and the moon, somewhere in open… so soothing!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m really glad to know that you could relate to it.
      Well ,I do the same. After my dinner ,I go out & enjoy the nature ๐Ÿ’™

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      • Meenakshi

        That’s really nice! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  • scarlettreddungeon

    In the summer, it’s laying out in the sun or horse back riding. In the winter ,it’s reading and relaxing

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Sounds really fun & soothing !!
      Thank you for reading โค๐Ÿ™Œ

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  • frangipani loving tropical lady sipping jasmine tea

    great post.spending time with ourselves really helps us tap into the inner knowing within…

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yess ,exactly ๐Ÿ’ฏ
      Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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  • Abhishek pathania

    Good pointers and certainly we should do it. Great advice!

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  • Amermaid'stale

    Great feed!!
    Solitude is indeed the only way to know our own self.

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  • Shira Khiamti

    This listen my mood a little ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • Shira Khiamti

      Lifted**

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      • Accidental Blogger

        Really glad to know it lifted up your mood ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€โค
        Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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  • BeingAlive

    Thank u for sharing this reminder of keeping intact that very space of me-myself..๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป

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    • Accidental Blogger

      You’re welcome ,dear.
      Thank you for reading โค๐Ÿ™Œ

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  • murshid_akram

    Right bro..it’s very important in our life like meditation

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  • thejetsetgocouple

    Completely agree with this. ‘Me time’ is the most important thing to keep the sanity intact.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      It is a must time one should set for himself.
      Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜ƒโค

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  • Nathprasad Dhanawat

    I must say.. it’s really powerful post. & of course will try to work on it .๐Ÿ˜Š

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much brother ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
      Let me know how does it feel when you start spending time with yourself๐Ÿ˜€

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  • Chiru

    Awesome post bro.. this is what most of us miss.. spending time with ourselves and our way…thatโ€™s when we feel the peace..

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes , exactly brother.
      Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

      Reply
  • adityasemwal02

    Even I have this me time. It feels great, as if though u are really doing smthing for urself….u should write a self help book someday it wud be a bestseller I’m sure๐Ÿ˜Š

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    • Accidental Blogger

      A book ? Haha ,maybe years later when I’ll be full of experiences .So that i can share them. That would surely took long time ๐Ÿ˜‚

      Glad to know that you’ve your Me time.
      Thank you so much for your kind words โค๐Ÿ™Œ

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  • lazy girls running

    This post was worth reading. One should definitely spend some quality time with oneself in order to gain self peace.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      True that ! Glad to know that what I wanted to convey through this post is reaching to people.

      Thank you so much
      โค

      Reply
  • theitinerary1

    Great post ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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    • theitinerary1

      Check out my blog when you get the chance ๐Ÿ™‚

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      • Accidental Blogger

        Thank you so much โค
        I’ll surely check your blog , just in a min

        Reply
  • Zankhana

    That pictured thought was just amazing!!!!!

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  • Thought for Change

    Me Tim rocks ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  • getyurownstyle

    Amazing post .

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  • Tanya

    Totally agreed!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Glad to know that you agree. Thank you so much for reading ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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      • Tanya

        my esteem pleasure

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        • Accidental Blogger

          ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡

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          • Tanya

            ๐Ÿ˜Š I will also take this as an opportunity to thank you for your consistent likes on my posts. I truly appreciate it!

          • Accidental Blogger

            My pleasure . I found your posts relatable & positive โค๐Ÿ˜‡

          • Tanya

            I am glad my words resonated ๐Ÿ™‚

  • komal845

    Really nice ๐Ÿ‘

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  • Akshaya Thulasi

    Nice !!

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  • Just_Me :)

    Me time is very important for me. In this world where everything moves so fast and everything is in social media, the more I crave time for myself. I don’t mean it mean but people drain me sometimes so spending time alone by myself recharges my energy.
    Nice read. ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I can relate. Yes ,big crowds & groups drain me .So me time is must to recharge our batteries , isn’t it ?๐Ÿ˜‰

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      • Just_Me :)

        I used to love being around people, well, I still do now but not as much as I enjoyed it before. I became picky with people, except when I travel.๐Ÿ˜Š

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        • Accidental Blogger

          That’s good actually. One must be conscious about where to spend his/her energy ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  • Ambika Rani K

    I completely agree with you. We cannot always rely on the other person in todayโ€™s life. We have to enjoy our company first. I have come across so many friends in my life, who almost become so directionless when they donโ€™t have a person near them. And I have also seen what happens when you make someone as your crutch. One day the person chooses to leave you and you are destroyed (emotionally, physically and mentally)

    Hence the best option is to start spending more time with yourself and understand your likes and dislikes. Start exploring what is it that we truly desire from our hearts. Self-love is the best thing that one can start practicing in day-to-day life.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Love this comment.
      I’m really glad to read this. This is so true , I’ve seen same with many people . They are afraid to be alone or spend time with themselves. They seek validation & attention from others.

      Thank you for reading & providing such helpful advice ๐Ÿ˜‡โค

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  • Words from Eliah

    Amazing blog! I do spend time with myself so I can connect with God. I sometimes disconnect from people for a whole day. Very powerful! Thanks for sharing!!!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s really great. A day off from everyone sounds peaceful ๐Ÿ’™
      Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜‡

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  • Eliza

    I love this post. I spend time with myself journaling. Occasionally just lying on my bed doing nothing.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That sounds great. I also need to start journaling.

      Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜‡โค

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      • Eliza

        I’ve actually stopped journaling as much and need to go back to it.
        Love and light

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        • Accidental Blogger

          So we both need to start it ๐Ÿ˜
          Have a great week ahead ๐Ÿ˜€

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          • Eliza

            I started ๐Ÿ™‚
            Happy Sunday!
            Love and light

  • philosophy through photography

    Looks like both of us are on the same wavelengths .Love your suggestions.Thank you

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  • Growing Pains

    As an introvert, and as someone with a full-time job, spouse and child, “me-time” is a must. Most of the time these days, its driving in the car to the next destination, but nevertheless, its necessary to “re-charge” my batteries, and give me a new perspective on things. Great post as always bud!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      True !!Glad to know you’ve your me time in your day ๐Ÿ˜‡
      Thank you so much

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  • intentforcontent

    Completely agree..I love me time ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜‚โค๏ธ

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  • allysnotebook

    Good blog.. I have heaps of time for myself and love it.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s really great. Thank you so much for your valuable comment ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

      Reply
  • ambercoloredglasses12

    Every morning I take five minutes to stare at the ceiling while I lay in bed. I just daydream, let my thoughts roam, etc. I always want to do it for longer โ€“ 15-20 minutes would be incredible. Once in awhile I will meditate, but not consistently. Youโ€™re so right. Itโ€™s incredibly important. Itโ€™s also when the creative inspiration creeps in! This is a beautiful thing.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s great . I think I should try this too. Because sometimes I don’t have time to meditate (I can fix it though) .

      Thank you for reading & sharing your thoughts ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

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  • timecrawlerblog

    Time well spent! the little time we can spend for ourselves, that’s quality, makes us filled and loaded to take on the next step fresh! beautiful!! ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      So true ๐Ÿ’ฏโค๏ธ
      Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜‡

      Reply
  • Nilofapervin

    Spending time with me is my best activity

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