Hello Everyone !

Today I’ll be talking about Speaking up or you can say Expressing yourself.

Do you speak up your opinions/thoughts?

Or You keep them to yourself just to avoid embarrassment , getting judged or a conflict?

We have all been there where we wanted to say something to someone so bad but we didn’t. Because we all have been told to be nice to other people & to agree with others no matter what it is.

But not speaking up can harm you many ways that you can’t even imagine.

For example: You are in a relationship where your partner is hurting you or not paying attention to your needs. And you choose to stay quiet instead of speaking what you feel. (I’ve done this mistake)

So let’s go deep & try to understand why speaking up your thoughts is important.

What happens when you don’t speak up?

When you don’t express what you’re feeling you store all those feelings deep inside you. And this feelings start to disturb you mentally.

Soon you’ll start feeling sad, disturbed, depressed & confused without knowing reason behind it.

So this is what happened with me. I was in a relationship last year, it was going great at first (As usual).

Soon I started realizing that I’m sacrificing too much for this relationship.I wanted time for myself but I never expressed what I want & how I felt. Just to avoid any argument I kept mum.

Result? My behaviour changed a lot. I used to get stressed at unwanted & tiny issues . Further it resulted in breakup.

How to speak up?

After doing mistake of not speaking up my thoughts , I’ve learned a simple solution for it.

Speak whatever you feel about anything but with Respect .

See , when you add respect in whatever you speak other person will try to understand you. He/she will try to know why you feel this way & even try to change what made you feel this way.

Final Words :

I hope this post helped you to understand the importance of Why you should not keep your feelings/opinions to yourself”?

And from now on you’ll start speaking up .

Thank you for reading πŸ™‚


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58 thoughts to “Speak Up !

  • Piyush Choudhary

    Das what I do in my blog…I speak up. Great message there.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s what I do here tooπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ
      Thank you for reading ❀

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      • Piyush Choudhary

        Its great! Please do check out my blogs. I’d be glad to hear from you!

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Yes , I’ve already. It’s interesting & helpful.
          Keep writingπŸ˜ƒβ€

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          • Piyush Choudhary

            Thanks mate! You’re doing great too!

          • Accidental Blogger

            Thank you mate πŸ™‚

  • Bharath Upendra

    Some people never change regardless of the respect you give them.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Change the people who refuse to change

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      • Bharath Upendra

        I’d better leave them be. πŸ™‚

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        • Accidental Blogger

          I mean replace* πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ the other change

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          • Bharath Upendra

            HahahaπŸ˜‚

          • Accidental Blogger

            That’s where I need to improve my English , you see?

          • Bharath Upendra

            English is tricky.
            One word serves many purposes.πŸ˜‚

          • Accidental Blogger

            ExactlyπŸ˜‚πŸ’―

  • Lolsy's Library

    Lovely <3

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  • thejetsetgocouple

    Hi! We have nominated you for ‘Sunshine Blogger Award’. Please check it out, here( https://thejetsetgocouple.com/2018/09/22/sunshine-blogger-award/ ) and share your thoughts. Waiting to read your thoughts on it:)

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much for nominating me . I’ll write post as soon as possible πŸ˜ƒβ€

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  • Rameen

    Love this post. I so agree with you. It’s really important to speak out what you are actually feeling in the moment. I used to be hesitant to share my feelings, you know just for the sake of acting, Yay I’m so cool. But I felt because of all that I was turning into a horrible person. So lately thankfully, I have started sharing my feelings. And I feel so great and light headed. πŸ˜ƒ

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Same here . I’ve did same mistakes as you did & now I’ve learnt my lesson.
      I’m glad you related to it & thank you for sharing your experience πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒβ€

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      • Rameen

        My absolute pleasure 😊

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  • Jyo

    Well penned !!

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  • kristianw84

    Very well said! Communication is key behind any & all relationships!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes , exactly. It is must πŸ’―
      Thank you so much for reading & sharing your views πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

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  • Just_Me :)

    The way I was raised, if you have something to say, say it. How will the world know you exist if you don’t speak up?

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    • Accidental Blogger

      This is what is needed. You must speak up, no matter what you feel is opposite than others .

      Thank you for reading πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒβ€

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  • seema

    It is written nicely and true
    one of the most important thing is β€˜to talk but with respect’

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes ,Respect is needed too.

      Thank you so much ,seema πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒβ€

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  • Thought for Change

    Amazing post. Yes we should definitely speak our heart

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  • Sakshi

    Great post ……if we don’t stand for ourselves … No one else will …so it’s important to speak up

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    • Accidental Blogger

      So true πŸ’―
      Thank you so much for appreciation ,Sakshi β€πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

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  • Tanya

    Totally agree we should express ourselves and of course with respect. Thanks for this wonderful post.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m glad you relate to what I’ve written , thank you so much for your kind words πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒβ€

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  • zeesviews

    Really an insightful post Sumeet..its imperative to express your feelings but sometimes its difficult to do soπŸ™‡β€β™€οΈ

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ,Jass❀
      Yes , sometimes it is difficult. But you can’t afford to swallow your feelings & let it affect yourself adversely.
      So you must speak up !

      Reply
  • Arushi

    Can’t agree any more than I already do. This post was just brilliant and
    Keep writing, your writings are no less than a piece of art waiting to be nourished (read) by bloggers to actually get life.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ,Arushi ❀
      This means a lot to me πŸ˜‰

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      • Arushi

        Your welcome πŸ˜„

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  • witasarmah

    Honest ..very much truth within ur post. I myself went for counselling just because i wasnt able to speak up anything to anyone. I was so stored that resulted in only my own damage..i am still goin for counselling and learning to speak up.. So we must speak up for our own selves. Orelse it only ends up in mental anxiety. Great post

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes , this is exactly my point. Not speaking up my thoughts have affected me a lot.

      Thank you so much for reading & sharing your views πŸ˜ƒβ€

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  • iScriblr

    A wonderful reminder indeed!❀

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much for your kind wordsπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒβ€

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  • Abhishek pathania

    This is good, and you’re absolutely right. I agree.

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  • parikhitdutta

    This is a great post! We must take our life in our own hands lest we risk a chance of being trampled upon πŸ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Exactly !!!!!
      Thank you so much for sharing your viewsπŸ˜€πŸ˜€β€

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      • parikhitdutta

        The pleasure is all mine 😊

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  • Pragati Chauhan

    This was me a few years back. I was so hesitant to speak up even when it would hurt. Not expressing what you feel is like taking a bullet. I had so many conversations in my head with people that I felt it was useless to express how I feel. This can get worse as they might take you for granted and will walk over you. Just vent it out, it really helps πŸ™‚ Keep posting often your posts are insightful.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Same here. I’ve done mistake of not speaking up & learnt a lesson. I’ve understood what it can cost to our self.

      I’m glad you liked my writings , thank you so much for your kind words.πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒβ€

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  • Bhawu

    Yeah it’s important to speak up when necessary✌
    Great post πŸ‘Œ

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes it’s really important to speak up.
      Thank you for reading πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

      Reply

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