Hello Everyone !

Last week I wrote a Blog called Lets Talkwhere I got to talk to you people & got to know more about you. It helped me making new friends. So I thought why not to do this chat post one more time. πŸ˜‰

But today I want this talk to be different from previous one. Today I want everyone of you to write about your Weaknesses.

Why Weaknesses ?

I want this talk session not to be just a fun session but something which will help us to grow.

We often ignore our weaknesses ,fears & insecurities. But these are the things which we need to focus & take action to overcome.

Overcoming our own weaknesses ,fears ,etc requires Identification ,Planning & Constant efforts.

So anyone who’s reading this right now write what are your weaknesses ,fears ,insecurities ,anything. And describe how you are trying to overcome them.

Also I want everyone to participate in this talk session & help each other by advising each other on overcoming others weaknesses.

My weaknesses : Communication skills, Self confidence .

I’m trying to open up to new people & new experiences to improve my communication skills. While for self confidence I’m working on things which makes me feel more confident.

I’d love to get more tips which will help me overcoming my weaknesses.

What are you waiting for , start talking.

Let’s Grow Together !


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I’ll be happy to talk with you about anything .

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109 thoughts to “Let’s Talk #2 – Overcoming Weaknesses

  • Bharath Upendra

    We can help each other with commutation skills.😊

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Definitely bro.
      Let’s discuss how can we help each other in this πŸ˜€

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      • Bharath Upendra

        And yeah, confidence too.😎

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Let’s do this. Give me some tips πŸ˜‹

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          • Bharath Upendra

            I was asking you for help, bro.πŸ˜‚

          • Accidental Blogger

            Haha , Got it.
            Here’s what I’m applying :
            To gain confidence you’ve to make yourself proud. Achieve personal goals. For eg: Maintaining discipline ,Working out ,Scoring good marks ,Helping others ,learning something new.
            This will help.
            What do you think?

          • Bharath Upendra

            Okay, I’ll try.
            One step at a time.

          • Accidental Blogger

            Yes !
            About communication skills ,we can start talking on calls & help each other✌
            What say?

          • Bharath Upendra

            Ah! Okay.

  • Optimistic Soul

    Weakness !
    My introvertive nature.. which resulted in isolation..
    Like, I started avoiding people.. started being quiet with millions of thoughts running on my head..
    A smiling face with silence even in face to face discourse.
    Intentionally avoiding phone calls just because hesitating to talk ( with everyone )
    Maybe they don’t understand what I try to say..
    Maybe I don’t know to express what I feel..
    Sometimes, maybe I’m used to these.
    Whatever happens.. keeping everything inside.. and roaming retentions wavering..
    But a haunting silence around me is .. !!!!!
    This is my weakness..
    And I’m trying to change these for the past few days..

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hey !!! I’m an introvert too . I can totally feel you. Even I find it hard to express myself .

      But you know what , you have already started doing progress in it. You’ve accepted your weakness which is first step to overcome it.

      Now just keep working on yourself slowly.Start doing what you love. Get yourself to new environment . Even though you fail or feel awkward to talk with others , do it.

      With time you’ll feel confident. Even I’m still overcoming it . Just be positive & keep working .❀

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      • Optimistic Soul

        My best wishes
        Tc Sumit !
        May all good things come to you 🎁🎈

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Same to you dear !
          Just be what your username says “Optimistic” πŸ˜‹

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          • Optimistic Soul

            Uhuu πŸ˜†that’s how I’m able to handle things till date!
            Anyways thank you sumit !
            Good night dear

          • Accidental Blogger

            That’s great ! Keep it up.
            Good morning πŸ˜€πŸ˜€β€

  • Pia Majumdar

    Hello new found friend πŸ™‹πŸ™‹

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hey ,Pia ! .
      So I’ve initiated this talk session where today I want everyone to list their weaknesses here & how they are working on themselves to get over it.

      Reply
      • Pia Majumdar

        bata du sab??

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Bindass batao !!😁

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          • Pia Majumdar

            My weakness is I assume the best in people.
            Even though they are bad person.
            Also, m scared of ghosts 😰

          • Accidental Blogger

            This is the good quality in you. We’ve to look for others good qualities & ignore the bad ones. πŸ˜€
            I’m also scared of ghostsπŸ˜‚

          • Pia Majumdar

            boo
            darr laga na?
            We are groen up now still bhoot se darte hain πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰

          • Accidental Blogger

            Hahaha !!! True that πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

          • Pia Majumdar

            bachhe hi hai hum abhi bhi

          • Accidental Blogger

            Sahi kaha πŸ˜‚
            But tum mujhse choti bachi ho😁😁

          • Pia Majumdar

            Oh yeah
            Totally. 😰😰

          • Accidental Blogger

            Hai na?😁😁😁

          • Pia Majumdar

            Anyways, what about you??

          • Accidental Blogger

            Mera dil bhi baccha hai jiπŸ˜‚

          • Pia Majumdar

            No, I meant your weaknesses

          • Accidental Blogger

            Mine weaknesses are I lack Communication skills & self confidence on which I’m working.

            What are your advice about this?

          • Pia Majumdar

            Interact with more people, it will help you πŸ˜‹

          • Accidental Blogger

            Right , that’s what I’m trying to do.
            Thank you so much for your advice πŸ˜ƒ

          • Pia Majumdar

            Always welcome dr πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

  • Thought for Change

    My biggest weakness is me. 😊

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  • iScriblr

    β€œEvery weakness contains within itself a strength.”
    ― Shusaku Endo

    It’s onto us to change our weakness into our strengths!❀

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    • Accidental Blogger

      So true !.
      We have to make our weakness our strengths πŸ’―β€

      Thank you for your valuable comment πŸ™‚

      Reply
  • Kranti

    My biggest weakness is I am a laid back person πŸ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Haha ,same here. But is it really weakness ? I’ve so many people around me who gets stresses about anything so quickly. While I keep calm & try to analyze situation & take action

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      • Kranti

        πŸ˜„πŸ˜„ not all the time but yes sometimes when I hear voices you need to take stress..

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  • Aliaha Brown

    The funny thing about communication skills is that even if your the worst communicator, but your honest people will remember you because of your honesty. Not your flowing speach.
    And lots of times the other people your trying to talk to are just as nervouse.
    Personally I talk too much but, the way I see it if I’m in a situation like being the new person it’s always better to force yourself to talk to the other people. Because if I’m going to feel awkward regardless. So I might as well get it over with as soon as possible.
    Building confidence that’s something I struggle with in just about everything. I pretend to be confident. Your right about setting goals and achieving them. It gives you a motivational boost.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      This is helpful.
      What happens with me is when I talk in a group , mostly I feel ignored .So I kind of lose hope but I’m still trying.

      And how do you fake confidence?

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      • Aliaha Brown

        That’s awesome I know it’s hard but in the long run its worth it. Don’t give up.
        I fake confidence, by smiling and talking regardless of how I feel. In a group setting it can be hard but there is all ways sombody else in the group that feels the same way. If you watch long enough you’ll find them.

        If I’m nervous depending on the situation I’ll admit it. But that’s only on some occasion.

        Let your weakness be your strength. In other words, confidence isn’t always how you feel but how you act and your honesty.
        This post shares something your struggling with so you might not feel confident but your actions show otherwise. It’s like how courage isn’t the absence of fear. But facing those things regardless of your fear.

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        • Accidental Blogger

          I agree with you. The only way to overcome your fears is to face them.πŸ’―

          Thank you so much for this helpful comment !
          I’ll surely apply this tips from nowπŸ˜€

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          • Aliaha Brown

            Your welcomeπŸ˜‰

      • Optimistic Soul

        Can you check your spam/ trash box sumit ?

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  • Shantanu Baruah

    Nice initiative.

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  • supriyamishra2511

    Hey, Sumit
    Great initiative!!
    Aaaa… My weakness is that I’m too moody. Sometimes Im talking like superfast express and sometimes I’m too calm.
    This always throw me in troubles. There are some people who think that I’m an introvert and others do feel of extrovert.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I feel this isn’t weakness. It’s just the way you are. But if it’s getting you into troubles then you can change it.
      Like you’ve to think before you speak. And be aware of what you’re talking or doing.

      Thank you so much ,supriya.
      And you have once again mispelled my name (accidentally)πŸ˜‚

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      • supriyamishra2511

        Actually it’s not about what I talk.
        It’s about the people and their thinking.
        People who find me extrovert ,they seek more kinda fun and humour as I do sometimes. But the funniest thing is they will definitely meet me in my calm and cool days when I avoid answering or talking..πŸ™…
        And they will keep poking..
        Why are you not talking? Are you upset?
        Are you depressed? Somebody said something? And lots of things…πŸ˜πŸ™πŸ™
        Then friends are there aap to bde log ho kahan time hai….And then the rest story is to explain or make excuses…πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

        This accident is done by my phone.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
        It got autocorreted πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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        • Accidental Blogger

          That must be annoying. And you gotta deal with them. πŸ˜…
          But the people who know you well must be knowing about your mood swings.

          Wow ! You & your autocorrect both are expert in accidents πŸ˜‚

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          • supriyamishra2511

            No, not actually..
            Only one or two are there.

            Me n my has atut bandhanπŸ˜œπŸ˜‚ accidentally..
            So we do accidents …πŸ˜‚πŸ˜Ž

          • supriyamishra2511

            Me and my phone..

          • Accidental Blogger

            Those are enough. And don’t care about what others feel or say .

            Yeah , you both are accident partnersπŸ˜‚

          • supriyamishra2511

            I try to…

            Yeah, and you are the victim πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

          • Accidental Blogger

            Yes , your favorite victimπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

          • supriyamishra2511

            πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ victim blogger

          • Accidental Blogger

            Yeah exactly πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

          • supriyamishra2511

            Accidentally

  • Chiru

    Your posts are interesting and yes this is great initiative yar.
    Communication is the most confusing thing.. It helps u when u r alone and fears u when u r in crowd.. but I believe managing with what I have is what I do when I m in crowd.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much Chiru .
      Yes , it is.
      I think practicing communication can only help us to overcome it .πŸ˜€

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      • Chiru

        Yes keep conversing with lots of people.

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  • Arushi

    Great initiative Sumeet! πŸ˜ƒ

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you ,Arushi !
      Do write about your weaknesses or you can help others who have listed theirs.

      Btw I’ve responded to your mail , do check it.

      Reply
      • Arushi

        Oh okay… I’ve been a little busy lately ..but I will surely check it out

        Reply
  • adityasemwal02

    Hi naye dostπŸ™‹β€β™‚οΈ

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hello naye dost,Aditya πŸ˜ƒ

      What do you think about weaknesses?

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      • adityasemwal02

        Maths😣😣

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Hehe , that’s everyone’s weakness.
          But you can surely practice more & make your weakness as your strength πŸ”₯

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          • adityasemwal02

            Hey can I do something similiar on my blog?

          • Accidental Blogger

            Sure brother. More people would get benefit

  • parikhitdutta

    I think it has to be my ability to not say no and overthinking!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      As you know what your weakness is , you can definitely start working on it. Like start saying “No” to things which you don’t want to do. Ask yourself if that is important to you or not?

      for overthinking : Whatever topic about which you are overthinking ,stop . Breath in & breath out. Then ask yourself what are the most imp things you planned for the day. I’m sure you’ll get answer & you’ll realize that you’re wasting time on something which is useless.

      I hope it helps πŸ˜‰

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      • parikhitdutta

        ‘Ask yourself if that is important to you or not?’, it has become more of a habit than rationally thinking and arriving at a yes or a no. The thought process of ‘oh the other person may feel offended is ingrained in me’! Although now I am trying to pause, reflect and say no.

        Well overthinking, and I am sure the tribe of overthinking folks will concur, is quite a stochastic process. One thought leads to another and then another! It’s crazy. πŸ˜€

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        • Accidental Blogger

          That’s great ,as you’re doing progress in your weak areas.
          Keep it up & keep.moving forwardπŸ’―β€

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          • parikhitdutta

            Thanks AB! πŸ™‚

  • theexpeditionofthoughts

    I have this confidence and self worth issue with me and I am trying every bit of it .. but whenever I do something or try to do something for others they start taking me for granted ..I feel so worthless at times

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    • Accidental Blogger

      High five! I too have these issues & I’m trying to overcome it. Best way to achieve something is keep trying & failing in it , but not quitting.
      No matter how hard it gets we’ve to keep.moving forward πŸ™‚

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  • Pallavi Gupta

    Good initiative!
    If you hadn’t mentioned it, I would have never known that you’re an introvert. You seem so chatty xD

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    • Accidental Blogger

      “Never judge a book by its cover” πŸ˜‚
      I’m opposite of what I seem to be .

      And thanks for appreciation πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜

      Reply
  • witasarmah

    Who r u?

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m a human being. I’m from India & here I write blogs to help people & myself πŸ™‚

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      • witasarmah

        Hey nice to read u human being.. U speak minds…

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Hehe ! I was just kidding.
          My name is sumeet.
          What about you ? & where are you from?

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          • witasarmah

            OhhhπŸ˜ƒ then i m also accidentally a human being. From India. Deepanwita Sarmah.. It was like looking myself in a mirror while reading ur posts.. Core issues of we humans.. Humans are self destructable.. It felt nice n relatable reading ur pists…i will slowly but surely go through ur each posts

          • Accidental Blogger

            Haha !!!
            I’m glad you can relate to my posts. Thank you so much for your kind words towards my work πŸ˜€πŸ˜€β€

            Good morning

          • witasarmah

            β˜•good morning

  • witasarmah

    U r doin a great job.. I am an introvert too.. But i can communicate very well through this types of routes..people often consider me chatty coz of it. But i m the opp… I fear to be opened up by anyone.. I fear that someone may read me and know me inside out. Though i dont hv anything to hide but still the reason i myself dont know..i prefer to b a closed book for everyone. I maintain a distance

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Haha ,same here. Here I seem to be very chatty but in real I’m opposite.
      But yeah I’m trying to open up & get out of my comfort zone πŸ™‚

      Thank you for reading πŸ™‚

      Reply
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  • K.A.L.T

    Naming all my weaknesses would take all day. The main weakness that branches off into many different weaknesses, however, is my lack of self-confidence. Due to a lack of self-confidence, I often doubt myself and am unable to produce any good results as I do not believe that what I do will lead to a positive outcome. At the same time, this results in a continuous decrease in self-confidence. This often leads to an inferiority complex. Everyone else begins to look so much better than me from my perspective. Everytime someone accomplishes something, I use it as evidence to reaffirm my stand that I am the worst and most incapable person around. As a result, I become attention seeking. However, being socially awkward around most people, I end up trying to rack up accomplishments online and achieve almost instant self-gratification. For example, I started off as an anime quote editor on Instagram @amquotesnoob. By posting anime quote edits that I created to relieve stress, I started to get addicted to the joy of receiving tons of likes within a few hours. However, after a while, even that was not enough. Due to the fact that I spent a lot of time on my captions and few people read them, I felt that I needed a new avenue to express my thoughts. I need others to reaffirm that what I think is not wrong because I do not trust myself…

    To sum it all up… I think I am just someone with low self-esteem, self-confidence and unable to feel at ease unless others reaffirm my thoughts and beliefs… which led to the creation of my blog…

    I guess you could say it’s a gamble. If my blog falls through and dies, my self-esteem and confidence would plummet further. If it ends up doing decently and I can somehow make at least enough money to cover the cost of getting a paid WordPress account over the span of two years, my self-esteem and confidence would increase…

    Though the fact that I took such a gamble also shows that I may no longer be lacking that much in confidence… perhaps it was replaced by arrogance built up by my relative Instagram success topped with ignorance of how difficult it is to grow a blog and gain a following.

    Whatever it is, I could analyse each and every action I’ve taken and likely derive another weakness of mine so I’m just gonna stop here.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m really glad to read that you have analysed your weakness & trying understand the reason behind them.
      It’s great .

      I do have low confidence in myself. And I’ve faced lot of difficulties due to it .

      I think best way to gain confidence is by working hard & not giving up. Doing something for yourself to feel proud & happy .

      For me ,transforming myself from Fat to fit ,killing procrastination & scoring good marks in exam after failing & also starting this blog has increased my self confidence.
      Though ,I know I still got lot more work to do on my confidence.

      Thank you for reading πŸ˜‡β€οΈ

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      • K.A.L.T

        Thank you πŸ™‚

        Well when your incompetence is so glaring you just can’t help but try to figure out the problem… which is why I end up thinking a lot about my flaws and weaknesses ^^”

        Your goals sound much more like actual achievements than mine to be honest. You excercise to become fitter, work on becoming a better worker and also make time to write your blog as a hobby… If you manage to achieve all that, which of course I hope you do, your confidence will likely increase tremendously.

        Right now, my only goal is to keep consistent with my blog because I honestly have not much else I am willing to work hard on and not give up. As I mentioned in my blog response to your post about passion, I really don’t have any other passion other than writing. I did mention in my post that I understood what you meant by needing to focus on stability before finding your passion but another weakness of mine is that I find it extremely difficult to do anything that I do not deem as important or “worth the effort”.

        I guess to put it simply, my self-confidence rests heavily on my Internet endevours….

        Anyways, even as you were sharing more about yourself I ended up talking about myself again… I’m kinda self-centered in a way aren’t I?

        Well. I hope your confidence has at least increased quite a bit since you started your blog considering your following at the moment. I’m sure you’ll be able to gain even more confidence as you work towards your goals without giving up. Your struggles and hard work will never go unrecognised as long as you are willing to share them with us (your followers haha XD)

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        • Accidental Blogger

          No ,i don’t consider them as achievements yet. Maybe I can call them as my “small wins”.
          Because I’m still working on them. And I do keep losing my focus & motivation to keep going.

          no no , it’s great to talk about yourself. We can learn from each others a lot.

          So keep. sharing about yourself.

          Again ,thank you so much for all the kind words for me ❀️😊

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  • K.A.L.T

    Actually I probably still lack self-confidence. Or perhaps I am just not arrogant. With regards to my blog, I have not let a single person I know in real life that I have started it. I’m too scared to tell them of something I’ve started that might not end up well. Surprisingly or not so surprisingly, it’s something I especially do not dare to share with my parents.

    I guess this just makes for another weakness.

    I’m constantly worried about what others will think of me.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s totally okay ,I feel.
      I haven’t shared about my blog too.
      I won’t until I feel like telling them.

      Your blog is really great , just keep going .
      Don’t worry about result ,keep workingπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‰

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      • K.A.L.T

        Thank you so much! πŸ™‚
        I already planned to without you telling me to but it’s encouraging to hear you say that (or should I say read you write that) ^^

        Reply
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