Are you happy?

Answer to this question will be like

Yes, I’m happy with my life”

or

Umm.. Yeah , but I want to be more happy.”

or

Nope, My life sucks.

But first let’s understand what is Happiness.

What Is Happiness ?

Happiness is a feeling. Feeling of Joy, Satisfaction & Contentment. These are actually synonyms for Happiness.

There are a lot of different resources of happiness for different people. For example: Money, Love, Friends, A Hobby, Achievements, etc.

Reason for someone’s happiness can be reason for someone else’s Unhappiness. That’s how complicated Happiness is.

For example: Working out can be a reason for someone’s happiness while for others it is a painful & uninteresting thing to do.

I hope you get my point here. The point is Happiness differs from person to person.

Why Are Most People Unhappy?

From the response of question asked in the beginning , we can say that lot of people are not happy with their life.

Even if they are , there might be something which they want to do to be more happy. They feel somewhere they are lacking.

Why ?

You’re Not Who You Want To Be

We all have an ideal personality of ourselves in our mind. It’s the person you want to be. That person has all the Skills you want to have. He/she is the best version of yourself and that’s what you want to be.

For example:

You’re person with a lot of Insecurities & fears. So who you want to be is person who is Confident & Fearless.

Not Where You Want To Be

Well, not physically. It’s like a position where you want to be. Maybe Financially , Emotionally, Even Physically. Confused?

Let’s take an example:

Suppose you are getting rejected in interviews & you’re about to be broke. So you where you want to be is at “A Good Paying Job”.

Another example.

You had a breakup (Ugh. Breakup again?). Anyway ,so you’re trying to get over that breakup & move on with your life.

So here where you want to be where you no longer care about your past & you are happy with whatever you have at that moment.

I hope it makes sense now.

How To Be Happy ?

To be honest, I don’t know.

The thing is there is no specific definition of Happiness. Every person has a different definition of Happiness.

Some people may find happiness in going out while some may find it in being at home.

Some people may find happiness in Luxury while some may find it in Minimalism.

Some people may find happiness being with someone while some may find it being one themselves.

You see that? It’s all confusing.

So I can’t tell you like “Do This 5 Things & You’ll Be Happy“. I really can’t.

Then who can tell you How to be happy?

Only you can tell yourself. No one else can tell you how to be happy.

So first of all get to know yourself. Try to find yourself. Find out who you want to be. Find Out where you want to be.

Do the things that makes you happy. Just the way you do things for your loved ones to make them happy , do it for yourself.

Make yourself Happy.

Fulfill your wishes.

Achieve your Goals.

Reward Yourself

&
Love Yourself.

That’s it. I would love to know what you think about happiness. Also if you wan to share your tips to be happy then do share in the comment box below.

Thank you for reading!


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57 thoughts to “How To Be Happy ?

  • a.mermaid'spen_

    This post made me, happy 🌸

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m really glad to know it made you happy 😊β™₯️

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  • Davina

    For me happiness is a feeling of being content…
    Feeling of being content comes with satisfaction.
    So one must to learn follow his/her dreams to satisfy the desire because in the absence of the fulfillment of your desire you will always find your self unhappy..
    So follow your Dreams and cheers!!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Exactly ,davina !
      Fulfilling your desires can give immense satisfaction & pleasure .

      Thank you for reading & sharing your opinion 😊β™₯️

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      • Davina

        Your most welcome!

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  • BeingAlive

    Well written note…thanku for sharing πŸ‘πŸ»

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  • Bharath Upendra

    Pretend you’re and you’ll get used to it eventually.πŸ˜‚

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    • Thought for Change

      Ha ha that’s also true.

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      • Bharath Upendra

        That’s what I’ve been doing and trust me, it works. πŸ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s true ! What you think you become 😎

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      • Bharath Upendra

        Oh aisa laga Kya?
        You manage to find something positive out of the most depressing things. Kudos.
        I’m the opposite πŸ˜‚

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Hahaha ! Always look for little positivity hidden behind negativities 😜😜

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          • Bharath Upendra

            Yeah good luck on that.

  • Thought for Change

    I believe that happiness comes from true expression of emotions. When we express ourselves naturally and not try and hide anything then we will be happy in the end but all emotions are fleeting so we can’t always be happy all the time but we sure will have our moments.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yeah ,I believe in that. Supressing emotions can be so harmful. Hence, expressing them will always help to feel better 😊β™₯️

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  • shrika Dhaka

    Happiness is the Key to success is my strength of life πŸ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      So true 😊
      Thank you for reading πŸ˜€

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  • Sameera

    To me happiness is all about having faith which means that whatever is happening is the best that can happen now.😊

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That is the best approach towards life 😊β™₯️
      I feel the same way

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  • rajanisingh885721172

    Fabulous post.

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  • Elixir

    Hey!! I thought you were busy because of your absence! I have been nominated for the sunshine blogger award… Can I nominate you? I need your consent…πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ƒ

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hey dear ! Yes you can absolutely nominate me .
      Thank you 😊😊

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      • Elixir

        πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜Š

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  • Vanessa

    Loved the post and the topic! Happiness is simple but not easy, as some say.
    I’m preparing a book on happiness based on daily exercises. I’m thinking of letting people try it out before publishing. Would you like to give it a try? The trial starts on the 1st January with one exercise per day until the end of the month and I will be featuring everyone that participates (in the book and online) 😘

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you Vanessa !
      That’s amazing ! I would love to be part of it. I’m surely in for this β™₯οΈπŸ˜€πŸ˜€

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      • Vanessa

        Awesome 😊 I will get in touch this week with more details β™₯οΈπŸ™ To the year of happiness πŸ¦Ήβ€β™€οΈ πŸ¦Ήβ€β™‚οΈ

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  • Samantha

    Inspiring post πŸ™‚ I believe happiness is not a constant state you can be in, more like it comes in waves. Sometimes I am happy, sometimes I am not. Which is also good, because the bad moments in my life make the happy moments so much sweeter!

    Yet, I believe in following your dreams and trying to achieve a happy state for as long as you can keep hold of it!

    Have a good weekend πŸ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      So true ,Samantha. Bad moments make us appreciate good things 😊

      Thank you for reading & sharing your opinion β™₯️😊

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  • Winnie

    Great post!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you Winnie 😊

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      • Winnie

        You’re welcome! 😊

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  • Juliet Elizabeth Petersen

    Loved this! Good food for thought. I think one way to be happy is to be grateful for the things that we have. Have an awesome day ❀️

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    • Accidental Blogger

      True! We’ve to first be happy about what we have.

      Thank you for reading & sharing your opinion 😊β™₯️

      Reply
  • Shivani.

    Hey! this is really good!
    Loving yourself is the true meaning of life and it has definitely made me happy!
    Thanks for this lovely post. ❀

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hey ! Yes , loving yourself is the best thing you can do for yourself 😊β™₯️

      You are welcomeπŸ˜€

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  • saymber

    I have found it’s important to avoid having unrealistic expectations of what happiness is supposed to be. What makes you happy, what generates the warmth and glow in you may not be the same for everyone else. As you mentioned, happiness does not have a uniform definition or feel the same for all people. For me it’s usually with the warmth that comes from love and it goes from there. The love of what I’m doing, who I’m with for example.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s perfect .We all need to find what makes us happy then we won’t ever depend on anyone else for happiness 😊

      Thank you for sharing your opinion β™₯️

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  • alyshia-mae

    Heyy there! I enjoy reading your post and decided to nominated you for the Sunshine Bloggers award! Take a look https://beautifulpassionatelove.com/2018/12/15/sunshine-blogger-award/(opens in a new tab)

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  • Chandni Asnani

    Hi Sumeet! This is the most realistic post I’ve read. πŸ˜„ The one time where you said that I can’t tell you how to be happy, haha, I agree, happiness is variable for everyone. Me making comics makes me super happy, but makes my Papa unhappy that she’s wasting her time in useless stuff. 😹
    This post is very inspiring. Thankyou for sharing. β˜ΊπŸ’™

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hey Chandni!
      Thank you so much β™₯️😊
      Yes , happiness is such a variable concept.

      Just do what makes you happy & don’t listen to others 😊

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  • Queen Bean

    Great minds must think alike, because I felt like we were on the same level word for word. πŸ˜ŠπŸ’• Happiness can only be achieved by what lies inside yourself.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      That’s amazing. I’m glad to know that we share same opinions 😊

      Thank you so much

      Reply
  • Saania2806

    Love this topic!

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  • noir622224124

    I smiled thank you

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  • Riya

    Accurate! Well written.

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