Is it true?

You must’ve heard this line a lot of times . Do you believe in this?

Some of you may believe some may not. And it’s okay .

When something goes wrong we feel worthless .We start blaming ,regretting also sometimes crying. And while doing that it’s hard to believe that “Everything happens for a reason “.

Yes , it’s true .Whatever happened to you has a strong & valid reason . If you’ve failed at doing something which you wanted , it means that your were lacking somewhere completing that task .Maybe you weren’t as good as you needed to be.

Again , Yes . There’s a reason why things didn’t go the way you wanted to .

Let me tell you my story :

July 7 2017 . I failed in my second year of engineering. Yes ,I was shattered .I couldn’t believe it. I felt hopeless . I cried ,regretted . I considered myself as a failure. My parents were disappointed .

My whole world was falling .

What did I do?

When regretting phase got over. I knew what I needed to do.

  • Accepted my failure. Told myself that “It’s okay to fail”. (Don’t believe it ? click here).
  • Started working on my weakness.Focused on my weak subjects & passed all of them with good marks.
  • Transformed myself from Fat to fit. I was overweight & wanted to get in shape . I was trying to lose weight from last 2 years , but Wasn’t consistent . Finally , this was the time where I was determined to get fit . And yes ,I did it. I lost 10 kg in 6 months.
  • Learnt meditation. I was always interested in meditation . While I was on year break from college ,I got an opportunity to attend a meditation camp . Its called “Vipassana” . It was a wonderful experience for me & my family. Vipassana has taught a lot to me about myself ,people & life. ( I’ll write a separate blog about Vipassana later).
  • Started reading Books. I was not really fond of reading anything outside of my syllabus ,lol. But this time as I wanted so bad to change myself .I wanted a life changing book to read .So I started reading a book called “The monk who sold his Ferrari – Robin sharma “. When I completed reading this ,I wanted to improve myself .I realized that I’ve been wasting a lot of time .I wanted to work on myself . This was it , now there’s no turning back.

Conclusion :

Do you see why I said at the beginning of blog “Everything happens for a reason “?. I’m sure you do believe now.

That failure was necessary . Without failing I wouldn’t have been what I’m today.

I’m not bragging about myself here. I’m still working on myself , it’s a never ending process .We all need to keep working on ourselves .

The point is always have a Hope .A hope that everything is gonna be okay . If something is gone wrong , you just have to be patient & keep working . That’s it .

Thank you for reading !

Have a great day ahead ๐Ÿ™‚

45 thoughts to “Everything happens for a reason

  • Thought for Change

    Yessss everything do happens for a reason.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yeah . Even if there isn’t one , we have to find it . And use it for our betterment. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  • butterflies and boundaries

    Great post!!
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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you !
      Yes ,I just did . You create great content .
      Keep it up !

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  • seema

    This is very inspiring..Thanks for sharing your experience ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  • aruna3

    Absolutely true.dear!!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes ๐Ÿ˜Š

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      • aruna3

        Welcome dear!!from where you are belonged,dear!!

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  • Dawn Renee

    I believe that, but darn it, still I lean just a little towards Karma being excessively cruel to some.
    So well written (typed)!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yes , true that . But still everything happens for a reason so keep that in mind & keep going .
      Thank you ๐Ÿ™‚

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  • Kranti

    Great Inspirational post dear!! I agree everything in life happens for a reason ๐Ÿ˜Š

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Happy to know it inspired you , thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜Š

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      • Kranti

        My pleasure always! ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  • The Floating Thoughts

    It’s so great to hear that you turned out the failure as your stepping stone and continued your growth!

    Best Wishes
    Amrita ๐Ÿ’•

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you for appreciating ๐Ÿ˜Š Same to you ,Amrita

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  • supriyamishra2511

    Worth post..And so you are..

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  • Minnie

    Very inspiring! โค๏ธ

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ,Minnie๐Ÿ˜ƒโค

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      • Minnie

        I am loving your blog! Great work!

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        • Accidental Blogger

          This means a lot ๐Ÿ˜ƒโค
          Thank you so much ๐Ÿ™‚

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  • Maanya

    This is inspiring.๐Ÿ˜Š

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you ,Maanya๐Ÿ˜ƒโค

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      • Maanya

        I really like your blog๐Ÿ˜Š

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Thank you so much , means a lot to me ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ™โค
          And yeah ,I like your blog too.
          Keep writing ๐Ÿ’ฏโค

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  • Jyoti Meena๐Ÿ˜Š

    I can connect with your thoughts and the best part is you took failure in a positive way thatโ€™s why you met the better version of yourself ๐Ÿ˜Š

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much for your kind & humble words for me. It means a lot. โค๐Ÿ™Œ

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  • Accidental Blogger

    Thank you for all the likes ๐Ÿ˜‡โค๏ธ
    Also for YouTube subscribe ( Surprising though ๐Ÿ˜…).

    Have a great day ๐Ÿ˜‡

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