Do real relationships exist ?

Do they ?

Relationships in this generations are like “Let’s be in a relationship until we find a better option” .

Most of the relationships are based conditions . As long as his/her needs are getting fulfilled he/she stays in a relationship. If not then they instantly look for other options .

This is an era of Internet , Social media & Smartphones. The problem this things have created is that people have unlimited choices for what they want. For example : If a person doesn’t like some “X app” , he can easily go other thousands of available apps.

And this principle is getting applied by people in relationships also . If a relationship is having some difficulties instead of trying solve them , people look for other available options & break up .

Let’s go deeper & look for problems in relationships :

Problems with relationships

  1. Relationship based on Looks/Money/Status – This is the biggest mistake people make while choosing a partner . You can never know a person by his/her external characteristics such as Looks/Physique/Money. This kind of relationships last until you meet real person behind that attractive external qualities.
  2. Lack of self love – A person who doesn’t love himself/herself looks for that love from others . One should never get into relationship until he can love himself . This people will never be happy even if they are with someone because they always expect more from their partner .
  3. Loneliness – A lot of people are going through this . They are lonely even if they have so many people around them. This lonely people after getting into relationship rely on their partners for their happiness . Eventually such relationships break as one of them is pressurizing other one .
  4. Loving too much – Anything too much is not good . Sometimes people love too much that they lose their own individuality in loving someone. This kind of toxic relationship never last & person who loves too much loses everything he/she had .

How does an ideal relationship look like?

  1. Relationship based on Qualities – A relationship based on qualities is what you need to look for . Because the external appearance is not going to last forever but qualities will . So this kind of relationships will definitely last .
  2. Relationship which adds value – An ideal relationship adds value to individual life for both members . When you’re with quality partner he/she will inspire & motivate you to be better version of yourself & vice versa . A relationship where both grow together individually .
  3. TRUST- Trust is the most important factor of an ideal relationship . Without trust no relationship will work .Trusting each other is what makes relationship healthy & strong.
  4. Respect – Respecting each other is another important factor in a relationship. Mutual respect for each other’s choices & decisions needs to be there in a relationship. Also accepting partner for who he/she is & understanding that “Nobody is perfect” is needed.

So this is what I think about real relationships which are rare these days .

When you truly love someone, you don’t look for reasons , you look beyond reasons ❀

Thank you for reading & let me know your views on relationships in comment section below πŸ™‚

37 thoughts to “Do Real Relationships Exist?

  • shalini

    Lovely points. No idea… If anything is true anymore. But I still have hope

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you !
      Instead of looking for true love one should focus on self improvement . And love will come sooner or later πŸ™‚

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      • shalini

        I have many many years on this earth.

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Haha , Exactly πŸ˜‰

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          • shalini

            I meant I have lived many many years on this earth

          • shalini

            Lived disappeared from the first comment 🀐

          • Accidental Blogger

            Hahaha , It’s okay ! No matter how long it takes everything falls in place

  • kishanlakhotia

    Nice post. Conditional relationship will always face difficulties.

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  • jraijada25

    Loving yourself first is the most important thing, the right person will come along.

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  • Akshaya Thulasi

    Soooo trueπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ
    Relationships in this generations are likeΒ β€œLet’s be in a relationship until we find a better option” .
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    When you truly love someone, you don’t look for reasons , you look beyond reasons πŸ’œ
    Thanks for sharing this valuable post
    Keep sharing 🌹

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Glad you like my content πŸ™‚
      Thank you . I’ll keep sharing & you keep checking my posts πŸ˜€β€

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  • Thought for Change

    I love this post ❀. Everything you’ve said in the post is true.

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  • supriyamishra2511

    Reasonable content….
    Liked it..

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  • csprasath

    Excellent writeup ! ” Mutual Respect ” is one of the prime factors which decides a relationship in a longer run !

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    • Accidental Blogger

      You’re right . Thank you for appreciating 😊

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  • Viduu

    Loved this post! You’ve covered every small aspect of the topic in such a nice way! <3 πŸ™‚

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  • Angana

    How beautifully you explained all of it!!! Great!!!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ,Angana 😊
      I checked your blog yesterday , you are great writer .
      Looking forward to read more of your work ✌

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      • Angana

        Thank you very much πŸ™‚ I’m so glad you liked my work. I look forward to reading your posts as well! πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚

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  • ZeeSiddiqui

    You are right!

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  • Amy

    Seems like we need to find a balance. I am from an older generation, we sometimes don’t realize when it is time to let go of a relationship that does not nor will it ever serve either of us how a relationship is meant to, full of love and compassion. I read a great thing where it said relationships aren’t 50/50, they are 100/100, each of us giving a 100% always, not worrying what the other gives. I am definitely not an expert on this! I agree with the others that have said to love ourselves first, we can’t give what we don’t have!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Wow ! Every word you’ve said is so correct. Agree with you totally.

      Thank you so much for reading & sharing your opinion β€β€πŸ˜ƒ

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  • The Wellbeing Blogger

    This article is spot on, wow. So much food for thought and I really think it represents what’s ‘out there’. I want to believe real relationships are still possible though πŸ™‚ at least I hope so!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much πŸ™‚
      Yes , real relationship are possible.
      But it becomes difficult to believe once you’ve gone through a betrayal or failure in previous relationships.

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      • The Wellbeing Blogger

        True… I’m on the stage of processing that, we need to warm up and heal our hearts first πŸ™‚

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  • officialosi

    Idk if real relationships exist (in my life anyway), but what said is definitely right

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Haha , same here.
      Thank you so much πŸ˜‡

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      • officialosi

        πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½

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