Are you at the lowest of your life right now?

Does everything seems to falling in front of you?

Have you lost faith in yourself?

Do you feel like taking your own life & end everything ?

If yes, keep reading till the end.

Hello everyone!

First of all, the reason why am I writing this.

If you have read my post How To Move On From Past then you must be knowing about a girl who reached out to me to seek help for moving on from her abusive relationship.

So few weeks back she was feeling really down & she started blaming herself for everything that happened to her. She was feeling miserable that day & then she said

“I don’t wanna live anymore. I’m tired of dealing with all this every single day while he(her ex) is living happy life“.

I know there are lot more people who are dealing with similar emotions & thinking about taking their life.

It’s really scary for me to just even imagine this.

This post is dedicated to all of those who are dealing with lot of pain & negativity and having suicidal thoughts.

So Listen up !

Imagine You Took Your Life

Stop thinking about taking your life & imagine you already did it.

You’re lying on floor with slitted wrist in a pool of red blood all over floor

Or hanging on a rope with numb eyes.

Then your mother comes to check if why you haven’t woke up yet & she finds you dead in your room.

She can’t believe & tries to wake you up. She loses her voice because of immense shock & pain. She isn’t even able to cry.

Then your father & siblings arrives. They look at you lying in your mother’s arms dead. And burst into tears.

Your siblings who always looked up to you cannot even understand what are they seeing.

What’s Next?

It’s been a week you died. Everyone still in shock & pain. Everybody in your society talking about you & spreading rumors about your death.

Your family?

Well , they haven’t eaten since you are gone. They haven’t slept since you are gone.

Your parents wondering why did you do this. They are blaming themselves for not knowing what you were dealing with.

They are regretting not able to save their own child. All they can feel is guilt & regret.

Your siblings regretting all the silly fights they had with you. Feeling guilty for not knowing what you were going through.

Your best friend who was always there for you has locked himself in his room & crying his heart out. Regretting for not having that funny conversation with you which might have saved you.

Months passed but the feeling of guilt & regret didn’t.

How does it feel to just imagine?

Let’s get it straight

Okay, I understand you had a horrible past. Something happened which you never imagined & it has completely destroyed you. And now you can’t go back & change that , right?

So yeah, someone did wrong to you. They gave you a lot of pain. Maybe too much of it. But all you gave them was pure love.

And now you’re thinking about ending your life because of them?

What about the people who values you the most? Who’s world revolves around you? Who always kept doing things just to make you happy?

Yes , I’m talking about your family.

How can you forget them?

How can you think you don’t have someone who loves you?

Who was there for you at your lowest? Who fulfilled all your wishes no matter how silly they were? Who kept working overnight to make your future safe? Who didn’t sleep when you were sick?

Yes again it’s your family.

You Are Loved

You are loved. No matter how many people have left you who you thought will stay by your side , your family always did.

They never asked for anything in return from you. They didn’t leave you when you shouted at them or when you didn’t pick their call. They never left you alone.

No matter how angry they were with you, at the end of day they came back to you. No, they never replaced you.

Yes , you are loved. Loved unconditionally.

Stop Looking For Love

You already have it. Don’t obsess over that character in your favourite movie or book to come into your life. It’s a fiction, my dear.

Come back to reality & embrace the real unconditional love that you already have in your life.

Life is much more than looking for love.

Current Situation

Close to 800 000 people die due to suicide every year, which is one person every 40 seconds.

Recently my best friend told me about her cousin who ended his life for betrayal in a relationship. And how hard it was for her whole family to get over it. Especially his mom who took therapy for 1 whole year just to get over suicide of her son.

If you’re thinking about taking your own life, stop for while & think about your family.

Suicide is never a solution for any problem. Instead it will create more problems.

Suicide doesn’t take away the pain, it gives it to someone else.

I want each one of you to share this post as much you can, you’ll end up saving precious lives.

Thank you for reading !


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103 thoughts to “Before You End Your Life

  • Nirant Gurav

    Quality stuff to read onn mate

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  • K.A.L.T

    Wonderful post, was gonna make a post like this after watching an episode of a very real TV series titled “Lion Mums” whereby a model student killed himself due to the stress of high expectations placed on him and blaming himself for being unable to meet their expectations. As a result, for weeks, for months, his guardian who was looking after him detached herself from work despite being a workaholic and blamed herself for not noticing how he was struggling. Likewise, his otherwise hard-working diligent best friend who is known to always have a strong front broke and could no longer do anything to the best of his abilities. He tried to continue working hard and going on as per usual but couldn’t do his duties like he used to, even losing his cool during important interviews that would determine if he could enter his school of choice. In fact, he likely purposely flunked all of those as punishment for not being able to help his friend in his time of need as well. It made it clear to me how much pain and suffering someone choosing suicide can bring to others… truly “Suicide doesnt end the pain, it simply passes it on to others”. If one is truly hurting, trust your friends and share with them your troubles. They cannot help you if you simply bottle it up. In the end, those that actually care for you will end up hurting… especially since they found out that you didnt trust them enough to share your problems with them… and that they could do nothing for you…

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hey , thank you for sharing this. This is so true , people around the victim suffer a lot . Not only after they’re gone even when that person is going through hard time ,the closed one suffers too. Whole family & friends of that person go through a lot.

      It’s really important for all of us to recognise the true love which we already have & feel grateful for it.

      Thank you again πŸ˜€

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  • Thought for Change

    I hope this helps and lot of people.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I hope too . Do share this with others.
      Thank you πŸ˜€

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  • Winnie

    Great post! It’s really tragic when someone takes his/her own own life. I hope more people reach out. I’m happy you took the initiative to tackle suicide.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      So true, winnie..Do share this post so that we all can make this post reach to a lot of people who needs to hear this out.
      Thank you !

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      • Winnie

        Oh sure! I’ll reblog it later. You’re welcome.

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Thank you Winnie

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          • Winnie

            You’re welcome!

  • BeingAlive

    A very thought stirring article specially in recent times with the rise in such incidents…its a great reminder

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    • Accidental Blogger

      True ! Thank you πŸ˜‡
      Do share this as much you can

      Reply
  • savitha's Blog

    Great post. Hope people in depression and thinking there’s no way out and there’s no meaning to their life without ‘a’ someone or anything that’s bothering them, think about your family. No one can ever love you and can be there for you like your own family how much ever they scold or criticize you.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Exactly ! Everyone needs to understand about true love which they get from family ❀️

      Thank you & do share this.

      Reply
  • utkarsh1414

    A very great post………..glad you have written about this topic…………..
    This post is really helpful……….

    It’s sad people are taking there life sometimes literally for silly reasons……. The rate of depression is also increasing very fast amongst youngsters……………..

    Very good post…..everyone should read this.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much Utkarsh !

      True , number of suicides are increasing rapidly. Especially the teenagers.

      Do share this post πŸ˜‡

      Reply
  • Malar

    Such a well written piece! I hope it reaches a lot of hearts.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much Malar !

      Do help the ones going through such hard times by sharing as much you can πŸ˜‡β€οΈ

      Reply
  • Chiru

    Wonderful post yar.. This Post would help many….

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much Chiru ❀️

      Do share this so that it can reach many peopleπŸ˜€

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      • Chiru

        Yup Sure my friend..

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  • Arooba

    <3

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  • ShankySalty

    Amazing post❣

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  • utkarsh1414

    Of course

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  • davina

    This post made me really feel that pain…
    Seriously how could anybody take his life without thinking his/her true love(family). I
    Just because of one incident nobody should decide to finish the life.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      True that. It really hurts me to hear about suicides.

      I really hope this post changes perspective of people about true love of their family .

      Thank you for reading & do share this ❀️

      Reply
  • Abhishek pathania

    Great post dude!
    I’ll share this for sure.

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  • Hoon Gyeong

    Amazing post. Sometimes life goes in the wrong track. but we have to keep patience. Good days will come definitely.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      True that. Patience is the most crucial part during hard times.

      Thank you for reading & do share πŸ˜€

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      • Hoon Gyeong

        You are most welcome dear. you can also check my articls. I hope it will help you.

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  • murshid_akram

    Very positive post…and I hope it will help some people.. and if I talk according to their point of view who is thinking about quitting so it’s very very difficult to control yourself when you are in depression and when you are thinking about sucide because your mind isn’t work, even you don’t know what you are doing or thinking, so in this situation a true companion is very needed who can change their mind
    What I think we should always ready for those situations where we feel completely lost, we always keep in mind that yeah those situations will come in our life at some point of time but we have to fight coz this is the part of our life and I believe this will really work for everyone..

    Although there are so many things that we can live for when we think of sucide…we can do some social work, charity work etc etc..

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    • Accidental Blogger

      This is really great point man.
      I totally agree.

      Yes , at that situation no one can think about what’s right & what’s not.

      So we all need to understand the true love which we already get from family.
      Then even if we somehow have to go through a low phase in future then we will always have relief that we got family by our side.

      Thank you for reading & this valuable comment πŸ˜‡β€οΈ

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      • murshid_akram

        Yeah mate correct and your post reminded me a movie ” It’s a beautiful life ” (1946) because the purpose of movie was same as your post

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        • murshid_akram

          Sorry “it’s a wonderful life” movie name,, watch one time you will also like it

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  • Vishnu Aswanth

    Great initiative taken. The aftermath of death meant a lot. It was nice spreading awareness.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Exactly !

      Thank you Vishnu & do share this πŸ˜‡β€οΈ

      Reply
  • Phonic Words

    Great write up, It should reach to as many as people πŸ‘

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you ❀️
      Do share this so that it can reach to many people

      Reply
  • Sameera

    Ummm! Sometimes death is the only way but dying is escaping and escape routes are never safe. I have been there.. attempted dying thrice but came back when I thought of my parents. The situation is different now, almost everything is broken but I have hope. That sentence YOU ARE LOVED can save people. It can. It will hopefully..πŸ’™
    Thank you for writing this.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m so sorry , you had to go through that.
      I’m so glad to know that you came out of it. I’m proud of you & you are the True MAGIC😎πŸ”₯.

      Exactly , Escaping & running away from problems isn’t gonna solve those problems. But facing them with a hope can.

      Yes , you are loved. We all are .
      Not just buy our family , there are many other people around us who loves us & wants us to be happy in our life.

      So yeah , We all are lovedπŸ’™πŸ˜‡

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      • Sameera

        πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ€—

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  • Zaroya

    I’m really proud of you because of this. :’)

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Aww! Thank you so much dear πŸ’™
      Means a lot

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  • Lekshmi

    Someone wise once said “You’re given this life because you’re strong enough to live it!!!”

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    • Accidental Blogger

      This is so true πŸ’―β€οΈ
      Thank you for sharing πŸ˜‡

      Reply
  • Atara

    Amazing work bro.. A very much needed topic today.. Shared it on my blog
    πŸ‘πŸ‘

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hey brother ! Thank you for appreciation & sharing my work.

      But I can’t access your site. I think you’ve put wrong site address .
      Do correct it from settings.
      Thank you πŸ˜‡

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      • Atara

        I’m looking up for it but I’m unable to trace the mistake. I’ll fix it up soon. By the way, I’m a girl πŸ‘§ and this post deserved to be shared brother.☺ Keep writing and inspiring πŸ‘

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        • Accidental Blogger

          Oh , sorry for that πŸ˜…
          Go to account settings & correct web address .

          Thank you again πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

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          • Atara

            No problem.. πŸ˜ƒ Okay, I’ll try and fix that! Waiting to read more from you πŸ‘

          • Accidental Blogger

            Means a lotπŸ˜‡
            My best wishes for you

  • Elixir

    I’ve never thought of committing suicide! It seems funny and foolish to me! And I am confident about me that I can deal with my struggles and pains as I always do.
    A very good post. People should actually start looking deeper into matters like this. Is the boy or the girl the only person you’ve got?? No!! So live life. Y

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    • Elixir

      Your post will definitely help many and maybe save many too!!

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      • Accidental Blogger

        Thank you so much for all your kind words 😊😊β™₯️

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  • eddaz

    This is a great post and very motivating too. Good to shareπŸ˜‰

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much. Do share β€οΈπŸ˜‡

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      • eddaz

        My pleasure 😊

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  • Carlyn Jones

    There are days when i feel like im all alone by myself and i don’t have anyone to talk to but i just read what you said and it was very motivating to me so thank you for that

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m really happy to know that it helped you πŸ˜‡
      My best wishes ❀️

      Reply
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  • Life in the Happy

    Wow. This was such a heartbreaking but powerful post – thank you for sharing πŸ™‚

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Ikr !
      Thank you for reading ❀️
      Do share it.

      Reply
  • Nicculent

    this was so thoughtful and im sure it has helped many people!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I really hope so ❀️
      Thank you for reading πŸ˜‡

      Reply
  • Dr Vanessa Dias, the Wellbeing Blogger

    Keep up the good work dear friend, bringing these topics to light will help many people, I’m sure! Hugs πŸ’•

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hey Vanessa !! Thank you so much.
      Hugs back πŸ˜‡β€οΈ

      Reply
  • aruna3

    Thought provoking article,dear!!

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  • become1one

    Beautifuly written. We need to realise, which ever ’emotional scar’ it is which drives our negative behaviour is merely a figment. It no longer exists. We punish ourselves with “past” thought. The answer is LOVE……….LOVE Yourself, forgive Yourself……Focus on the future….Your future……Our future. Love awakens the most elevated You. Keep shining Your beautiful bright light on humanity

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Such a beautiful thought ❀️
      We keep looking back at our past which is the reason of suffering.

      Thank you for this beautiful comment πŸ˜‡β€οΈ

      Have a great weekend

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  • become1one

    And You have a uplifting and beautiful Journey

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    • Accidental Blogger

      So sweet of you ❀️
      Same to you.

      My best wishes & blessings πŸ˜‡

      Reply
  • sushma555

    Very inspirational post for all disappointed people…Keep sharing posts like this mateπŸ‘πŸ‘

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  • Kranti

    Excellent and thought-provoking post! Yes instead of taking their own life one should think and embrace that unconditional love.. much-needed post in the current scenario!!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      True that! Number of suicides increasing day by day .
      Thank you so much for reading & sharing your thoughts πŸ˜‡

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      • Kranti

        My absolute pleasure 😊

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  • winklejl

    Thank you so much for this post! It’s not easy living with a mental illness and tormented by thoughts of suicide. Writing like this, makes the world aware ,and for some, that they are not alone. Continue to write about such topics, and get awareness out there. ✌🏻 keep up the great posts!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much dear β€οΈβ€οΈπŸ˜‡
      If I can save even one life from writing this then that’s enough for me πŸ˜‡
      Yes , I’ll keep writing more of this & spread awareness.

      Have a great day β˜€οΈ

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  • Nameera

    This was a really nice read, especially the part where you wrote about the aftermath of suicide. Very often we tend to think that our problems are what matter most. As long as there’s absence of forgiveness & acceptance, both by the victim and the ones that surround them, there’s little hope. But yes, this is a grave step that changes lives of families altogether. Indeed, this is a deranged world we live in. It takes immense courage to hold our ground.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      So true Nameera !
      It gets really hard to hold on to hope & stay strong.
      But one must not forget about the unconditional love & support got from family .

      Thank you for this reading & sharing your opinion πŸ˜‡β€οΈ

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  • Anne Copeland

    Unfortunately, committing suicide is not at all funny or silly. It is quite possibly the worst thing you can think of except to be murdered. I live in Southern California, and it is all too common out in this area. Recently a girl 13 years young just mere blocks away hung herself because she was repeatedly bullied in school about her braces on her teeth. It is so sad that she could not understand that in a couple of years, she would become a beauty because of having those braces. Her parents are still suffering after months since the incident. And this is not at all an isolated case. I am very much an advocate for young people who are thinking of committing suicide. Never take it lightly. If anyone posts anything that sounds as though they are thinking of committing suicide, first post to them to tell them kindly to try to get help and then do what you can to contact the suicide prevention people. If you are not sure how to reach them in your area, do call 211 and ask for the number and they will give you a contact number.

    Life is sacred, and each and every one of us are here because we are meant to be. And every one of us, no matter how it may seem, is important to the survival of this earth. We never understand what a person who commits suicide might have accomplished on this planet. I have had several friends who have killed themselves, and each of them were accomplished and intelligent people, but it was not enough.

    I would like all of you who believe that suicide is a tragedy to go to the blog, A Million Thoughts and a Heart.wordpress.com, and read this young man’s posts. I believe that he is quite serious and I have been extremely concerned, trying to help prevent him from acting on his thoughts. We all feel loneliness, rejection, possibly extreme mourning, or things like PTSD at some time in our lives. And if we can each reach out and at least do whatever we can to find out who the person is wanting to do this and where they might be, then contact the suicide prevention people and let them know, it is critical.

    I liked what you wrote about how the people who are lost in thinking of suicide don’t realize what it is going to do to others who love and care about them. Thank you very kindly and I appreciate this excellent post.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hey Anne !
      Thank you for this lovely comment.

      True, suicide isn’t funny or silly.
      And sharing & seeking help from someone close is really important for someone who’s having suicidal thoughts.

      If you don’t share what you’re going through , then you’re worsening it for you. So it’s really important to talk it out .

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts & really glad to know you’re trying to help someone to come out of this situation.

      My best wishes for you
      ❀️

      Reply
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  • AfterHollywood.Online

    Reblogged this on AfterHollywood and commented:
    This may be the most important blog posting that you are reading this year. While I have found happiness in my own life, I know of so many that are depressed or fighting depression. The author of this post moved me deeply because I helped my youngest daughter survive a 5150 lockdown (she is home now Thank God) and I have another good friend of mine who’s niece is in a medically induced coma because of trying to kill herself.

    Life is too short to not see the joy in it. Yes, we all have bad days. Yes, sometimes things don’t go our way, but that does not mean that you cannot move past it.

    For all of my followers and readers, I want to wish you all the best Christmas yet in your own life. Be kind to yourself this holiday, okay? I know I will. Take good care now.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much for sharing this. Sorry for being late to respond this.
      But i appreciate your efforts to share this message
      😊😊β™₯️β™₯️

      Reply
  • Elixir

    Reblogged this on BadArt and commented:
    Wanted to post something similar! Its a nice post. Give it a read.

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  • Elixir

    Reblogged this on BadArt.

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  • Laura Venturini

    Such a powerful blog. Love it. Thought provoking.

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  • Chandni Asnani

    Woahh! Totally appreciate this attempt from your side, Sumeet. People really need to read this. I’m going to share it too. Thankyou so much for penning this down.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so so much for sharing this 😊😊😊β™₯️
      It means a lot to me

      Reply

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