To My Ex,

Where do I start ?

There are so many things which were left unsaid.

There are so many feelings which remained unexpressed.

Yes ,I have always been bad at expressing myself.

And you know it too.

It’s been a long time since we talked.

I hope you’re happy .

I hope you’re doing something which you always wanted to.

Reason behind writing this to you is to express what I never did.

To apologize you for doing a lot of mistakes & hurting you.

Sorry ! I’ve hurt you. I’ve made you cry. I gave you pain.

I accept my every mistake.

You said ,I hurt you intentionally. I did things to make you feel insecure. And I left you alone intentionally.

Seriously? Someone who has been with you from long 3 years through thick & thin ,Who has been there with you at your worst , someone who always wanted you to get better will hurt you intentionally ?

No ,I never tried to make you feel insecure. I always tried to express how much you meant to me. I always chose my words & my actions wisely just to make sure it doesn’t hurt you.

But they still did. And I’m sorry for that.

No , I didn’t leave you alone. I didn’t get bore when we used have late night calls. No matter how tired I was still I tried my best stay up with you. I’m sorry ,I failed.

I knew you couldn’t sleep. I knew about your nightmares but I’m sorry that I couldn’t be there with you.

You never knew how hard I cried whenever I hurt you.

I was always confused. Always unsure about our future. I accept that.

As a 20 year old guy who just failed in his college it was hard to figure out what I needed to do. It was hard to decide where I need to focus more.

More importantly it was hard for me to choose between Family & Love.

I was scared to promise you a future.I was scared to hurt you. I’ve seen you at your worst & I was scared to even imagine you going through that again.

As a failure ,I wanted to achieve a lot. I wanted to work hard on lot of things where I was weak.

But I was not strong enough to handle all of these things.

I started to change. My behavior changed. I became more silent. I started hurting you more.

I still remember when I said “No matter how my behaviour is changing ,I still love you the same way. And I need some time”.

I’m writing you this to accept all of my mistakes & to apologise you for everything.

I’m sorry for everything.

I’ve nothing to say against you. All I want to say is all the best for your future. May you achieve Happiness, Peace & Prosperity in your life.

I still miss the old us ,Crazy bff.

I still miss the friendship we had.

But it’s okay.

I’m doing good too.

There might be few more things remaining to say but I guess it’s enough for now.

Talk to you soon.

If you ever come across this letter , do not forget to reply ๐Ÿ˜‰

-Your Ex


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85 thoughts to “A Letter To My Ex

  • zeesviews

    So much touching..letter with full of feelings

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  • DumbStuff

    I feel this so hard, thanks for writing this dude. I’ve been going through similar feels recently and it’s especially hard if you’re someone that dwells on the past too much. It sucks when it feels like you gave as much as you could and it still didn’t work out

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I can feel you. I have been there too but there is no use of dwelling in past. All we need to do is accept the things as they are & move on.
      Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜‡

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  • Thought for Change

    Poignant

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  • sanikakendhe

    It’s very touchy …full of high impact emotions …stay blessed.๐Ÿ˜Š

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ,Sanika ๐Ÿ˜Šโค
      Stay blessed too

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  • Jyo

    Very touching…and well penned !

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  • thejetsetgocouple

    Honesty is evident here.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Yess ,I wanted to accept everything I did wrong honestly
      Thank you so muchย โค๐Ÿ™Œ

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  • Chiru

    So intense and touching bro.. The feeling….

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  • Nirant Gurav

    Dis is touching piece & very very deep with itโ€™s meaning ๐Ÿ˜ฆ

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ,Nirant๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€โค

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      • Nirant Gurav

        Pleasure always ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐ŸŽ€

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  • Pallavi Gupta

    *Feelings* ๐Ÿ’›

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you ,Pallavi .
      Glad to know you could feel it ๐Ÿ˜Šโค

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  • _PritAmDas_

    I really felt that.๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Glad to know that you could relate to it ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™Œ

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  • sushma555

    Having so much intense ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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  • Amermaid'stale

    This hits me hard!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Ikr. Glad to know you could feel it ๐Ÿ˜Š
      Thank you for reading โค

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  • Vishnu

    Bruh :/

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  • Kranti

    Itโ€™s touching! You have expressed all those suppressed feelings in honest and beautiful way!!

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  • Chandni Asnani

    This is so profound! The way youโ€™ve expressed your emotions is simple yet so intense. ๐ŸŒผ Stay happy and positive! Glad to come across your blog.
    -Firefly

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ,Chandniโค
      Best wishes to you too.๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

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  • Anjali Patel

    Can feel each and every word of you…..โค๏ธ

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  • Shira Khiamti

    So many feels. So many memories.

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  • melancholy girl

    damn, i really felt this one ;-; thanks for sharing

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    • Accidental Blogger

      I’m glad to know you could feel it .
      Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜‡โค

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  • Optimistic Soul

    Way to go โฃ dost
    Keep writing.. love and blessings ๐ŸŽŠ๐Ÿ˜Š

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ,Dost๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Šโค

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  • akanksha18verma

    Beautiful โ™ฅ

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  • Arushi

    Wow! Well this was touching.
    I’m sure your girl will forgive you after reading this. Anyone can melt under these impactful words.
    Good work sumeet.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      She isn’t my girl anymore ,lol.
      I’ve no plan to send this letter to her though.

      Thank you โค

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      • Arushi

        Right, I guess I forgot to add EX
        ๐Ÿ˜‚
        AND you’re welcome ๐Ÿ˜„

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  • WhyToStop

    This is so touching..written so beautifully..loved reading this

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  • iScriblr

    Heartfelt!

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  • Winnie

    Thatโ€™s a heartfelt message!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you , Winnie ๐Ÿ˜Š

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      • Winnie

        Youโ€™re welcome! ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  • PlantsandBeyond

    Hones, touching and would be a great gift if the ex reads it

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
      But I’ve no plans showing this to her๐Ÿ˜…

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  • Anne Copeland

    You know, it is not the words said that hurt us and others, but those left unsaid. I would send it to her. You never know what it might mean to her now that the hurt has had a chance to leave. Be brave and just do it. That is beautiful reading.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ,Anne.
      Should I ? She’s with someone else & now sending this shouldn’t send any wrong signal

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  • Perky

    So much emotions in a post. Extremely nice.

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  • pascaleshealingjourney

    Very heartfelt letter.

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  • Cyn

    I think this is extremely powerful. Maybe you will build up the courage one day to show this to her. If so, I can promise you that the amount of closure and clarity youโ€™ll get from that will be amazing. Great post!

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Well ,I did show this to her few days back.
      And I got reply “You never considered me as your family that’s why you had to choose between Family & love. And you did wrong.” Though later it got cool.
      But I wasn’t expecting this response .

      Anyway , Thank you for reading ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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  • allysnotebook

    Beautifully written and expressed. If my ex sent me a letter like that I would be happy to accept it.

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much โค๏ธ
      My ex didn’t seem that happy to revive it though ๐Ÿ˜‚

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      • allysnotebook

        Thats sad. At least you know you did what you thought was the best thing to do and say ๐Ÿ™‚

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  • Reco Mouse

    I felt this, like…. well… I have no words

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Hahah ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…
      Thank you so much for the wordless compliments๐Ÿ˜œ

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  • bbgirlgonzalez

    Reblogged this on Gโ€™s World and commented:
    Amazing

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much ,means a lot to me๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡โค๏ธ

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  • anjanasundariyer

    It wasn’t just a letter… I think there is life in this….. Keep writing.. ๐Ÿ˜Š

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Woah ! This means a lot .
      Thank you so much Anjana๐Ÿ˜‡

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  • Vishnu Aswanth

    My heart melted reading this so pleasing it was. I like this polite way of writing letters to Ex

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  • over soil

    After reading your letter thoroughly, this is how I might reply to such a letter:

    To My Ex,
    For all the things which are left unsaid or expressed in life, there is always the reality of the things that are said and expressed. We all express ourselves to others as best we can at the time. No one can truly know the thoughts of another and looking back we know in our hearts we couldn’t have done it any different, with what we knew then and who we were.
    Please don’t hope a constant state of being happy, for that wouldn’t include all the other just as good emotions being a sentient being. Each one of us when true to ourselves will see that we all do that which we always want to, otherwise we wouldn’t. Your expression of apology sounds like you are growing in empathy and that warms my heart for you. No one (including you) can ever hurt me intentionally, the only person who can do that is me with my thoughts and no one can promise a future, not even to themselves.
    Thank you, peace & prosperity
    Your Ex

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Wow ! This is the best reply I could get to this letter.
      Damn, loved reading this โ™ฅ๏ธ

      I’m thinking what if you’re actually my ex? ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜‚

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      • over soil

        I’m not

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        • Accidental Blogger

          I know ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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          • over soil

            or am I? No, just messin’ and yet are we not all interconnected to each other in some way?

          • Accidental Blogger

            Haha !!
            Yeah , so true. We all are interconnected ๐Ÿ˜Š

  • Mo's blog

    I felt this. Some much feelings poured into words. I’m new here and I love your blog alreadyโคโค

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    • Accidental Blogger

      Thank you so much Mo ! This means a lot to me โ™ฅ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Š
      And welcome to WordPress family ๐Ÿ˜Š

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      • Mo's blog

        Thank you๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™

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  • vikasshirodkar

    takes courage to look at yourself and your relationships dispassionately and comment about them. Kudos

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